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Its always a hard 3 talking about dating outside the race.....nicca we aint mad.....



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Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

like i said the other day in response to a 'I'm dark.. guys aren't checkin for me' comment: 
a pretty girl, is a pretty girl, is a pretty girl.. don't blame it on your color.. a guy isn't gonna be like, 'well…. she's beautiful… but she's black.. ill pass'
it can't be blamed on race either. 


you want to re-think that?
cause unfortunately, there are many men who really are like this.
they would never look twice at, much less date a woman who is dark skinned. real life.

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Originally posted by Longhairwanted8 Longhairwanted8 wrote:

Lies. Join a dating site and see how many white guys flood your inbox. Even if you specify black men only. These surveys seek to break our spirit. Don't believe it.



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One of my best girlfriends finds her men on Black People Meet, Plenty of Fish, and Tagged. She's convinced that there really are some good finds on these sites. She's even dated a few white men from Black People Meet, which for me would raise an eyebrow in and of itself. Not one of them, NOT ONE SINGLE person she's met off the internet have been a successful find. All of them are either married and lying or in a long term relationship and lying,or just plain dogs. still she keeps hope alive... Hell even that last white one was full of sh!t! I ask her why she wont try eharmony or match and she's always like, "Eff those pay for dicc sites!"
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Qualified, has your friend considered meeting men IRL? why's she scouring the net for a partner?
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Originally posted by .hott.pink. .hott.pink. wrote:

Originally posted by patternsandtexture patternsandtexture wrote:

Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:

Originally posted by patternsandtexture patternsandtexture wrote:

Originally posted by keepgrowing keepgrowing wrote:

If it wasn't for black women, black men would be the least desirable on dating site as well.
 
How so? LOL


you don't understand how to read the OP?
 
I read it and I didn't get her comment?

Because in the column for most desirable men chosen by women, the only women who are choosing black men are black women.

Yup. And in the least desirable it was black men for every race of women except black women who responded to white men the least. So there you have it. Black women love black men. 
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Originally posted by nekamarie83 nekamarie83 wrote:

this just in, "apparently, black women still ain't sh*t and are the bane of existence." -- blah blah blah.

don't believe the hype. black women will live and still be beautiful, proud survivors. all i need is for us to stop being so concerned about bullsh!t like the op and just focus on our going from surviving to thriving. 


I think it's something to be concerned about if your idea of thriving as a black woman includes being married to a black man.

Granted (as a  I read in another article) this was a review of the respondents to a specific app on facebook so it obviously doesn't represent all of America. But even the marriage stats from the last census are a bit worrying in this regard.
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You know what, she used to have a really nice shape, but she always struggled with weight. Right around the time when she was her heaviest, Id say about 10 years ago, she would meet men out and about but nothing seemed to make her happier than meeting them online..

From that point on she's been "engaged" a few times (I use that loosely), had a few short lived serious relationships, stemming from these online trysts. Her child's father is someone she met online. I couldnt even tell you the last person she met and entertained IRL.

She gets her validation from this online bs, who am I to rip it away lol? She gets defensive when I bring it up, so I leave it alone. She has since lost a lot of weight naturally and maintains it. Im just telling her story because although the men aint sh!t, she has no problem pulling men of all races on those crazy ass dating sites.

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Originally posted by QueenBee QueenBee wrote:

Originally posted by patternsandtexture patternsandtexture wrote:

Originally posted by QueenBee QueenBee wrote:

Black men want Asian women, YET Asian women don't want black men...ironing.
 
Oh, Asian men liking Latin women...interesting??
 
Not to regular negro males, but sophisticated black males can bag an asian woman preferably Japanese, they are the coolest ones besides south east asian women.
 
Sophisticated black men??   Like military black men???
 
Not just military, but sophiscation, dearie.
 
And for the other ladies throwing shots at Ajack
 
 


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Black women love black men though. I have black girlfriends dating white guys talking about this is temporary until they find a black man. Confused 

But anywho, I really believe that you will be fine. Black women are loved and I had a white guy ask me why black women don't like to date white guys. I had another talk to me and he was saying how I'm nice and surprised I was talking to him. 

I went out with my SO and his white male roommate to a black club and he was hitting on black women left and right and getting turned down left and right. He offered to buy them drinks and they kept it moving. He left early due to no one giving him the time of day lol. He is a handsome guy too. 

Same wasn't true for when I'm out with a white girl. Negros couldn't keep their hands off her lol. 

You will be fine! Don't let this study based on a skewed audience get you down.
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