wuts-rly-good wrote:
Now today i saw something posted on Instagram a screenshot of some black female ranting on facebook about latina/spanish women taking all of the black men.now although i found this funny i also found it interesting and it leads me to asking the following questions
1.Do you black women feel that latina women are taking your black men like the YT womenz are? 2.Is the "Black Independent Woman" thing being used so much in the black community by black women who are not even independent that black men decided to kick rocks and mess with females of other races? 3.Are spanish women a threat to yall on the low like YT women are? 4.Do you feel the brothas think spanish women are easier to deal with than the sistas? 5.Is shorty tripping?
lets discuss
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Haha!

1) No one is taking my "good Black man." If you are meant to be with someone, no one cant take them from you.
2) I'm not sure why independent has a negative connotation when associated with Black women. I can provide for myself, but there definitely a need for men. We need to make men feel more needed.
3) I don't feel threatened by any group of women. If a man is more attracted to White women or Latina women, there is nothing I do to attract/keep him.
4) I think some men appreciate that some cultures uphold traditional gender roles and values more. I don't think that is the sole reason some prefer other women. I really think it comes down to appearance.
5) Yeah, she sounds crazy.
Edited by Limalady - Mar 10 2013 at 8:42am