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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote babelipsss Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 15 2016 at 8:46am
I don't like the idea of buying kids. And that's basically what he has done. I have no doubt that the Panamanian woman was exploited and poorly compensated. He might be a good dad to his kids, but I am not impressed by his methods.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (2) Thanks(2)   Quote rickysrose Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 15 2016 at 9:51am
Even adoption is buying kids, it can cost $30k and even more

Surrogates are usually paid life changing money, in America or elsewhere, American dollars go further abroad and there's less chance of custody issues/appeals.   of course there are unscrupulous everywhere but with research they are open about compensation ...
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Adoption is always buying kids. Hell, when I mention parenthood for myself, and people ask when I will start a family, I often say, 'I'm not ready to buy them yet/when Im ready, I will buy a 10 year old'.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote liesnalibis Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 15 2016 at 10:23am
Even so, adoptable kids already exist and need homes. He's out here commissioning kids like Michael Jackson. 
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote NJHairLuv Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 15 2016 at 10:33am
Originally posted by liesnalibis liesnalibis wrote:

Even so, adoptable kids already exist and need homes. He's out here commissioning kids like Michael Jackson. 

Yep, he commissioned them.LOLLOLCryLOLLOL
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Adopting kids can be risky, nurture can do only so much and if you're familiar with the nature it can make nurture more effective

It isn't unusual to want kids of your own.   If he went the "normal" route, he could've spent the same $300k in a custody battle, support and not even get the kids in the end

In a lot of areas of life, people should worry less about what random people think and fully understand what they want and concentrate their efforts accordingly
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I agree Ricky. As long as the surrogate wasn't 'exploited', I think this is good for him.
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Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:

Adopting kids can be risky, nurture can do only so much and if you're familiar with the nature it can make nurture more effective

It isn't unusual to want kids of your own.   If he went the "normal" route, he could've spent the same $300k in a custody battle, support and not even get the kids in the end

In a lot of areas of life, people should worry less about what random people think and fully understand what they want and concentrate their efforts accordingly

right. I don't understand it, but it's not unusual at all. And people will go to extremes to make that happen. Family and friends have done it.
I support people having what they want, if possible.



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womenz do this all the time Embarrassed
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My parents, who live in Queens but are originally from Haiti, took a lot of convincing because they’re very traditional and expect kids to be born to married couples. 

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