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i kind of do feel bad for them. 
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Originally posted by Positive K Positive K wrote:

Originally posted by nitabug nitabug wrote:

Originally posted by Positive K Positive K wrote:

Some women that want a family and husband will have to work harder to attain that versus others. Some women want a family but if they having trouble to get it act like they fine with being childless and single.

I  have to work harder to attain a LTR with someone who is at terms with me never wanting to have children with them. Especially men.

Men talk alot of sh*t, but most of the ones I've met do want kids and they don't like the idea or the ego crushing of you wanting them, but not their offspring.


You are very rare. Men meet a woman that doesn't want kids and that is shocking. But I'm sure there are some out there looking for a woman like you. Yall should have a dating site exclusively for people who don't want kids. I'm sure the older u get tho, you'll meet men that have had kids and don't want anymore. But would u want a man with kids already?
Not at this point, no. The ones I meet lie and I always catch them in lies. I am starting to meet the childless men and women...who childless, but not by choice.
& they are annoying.
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Originally posted by Random Thoughts Random Thoughts wrote:

Originally posted by nitabug nitabug wrote:

I have a family. I don't need children to have one of those...it came with the "human" package.

If all my family died, I'd still be content with friends, and if they died...welp...there's bhm


We'll all be dead too.

LOL Well, who wants to bring children into a world like that?
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When people want something outside of the cookie cutter life, it's wrong...

Go to college---> start your career----->find a man--->marry him---> white picket fence----> kids---> happily ever afterDisapprove

dormant vaginas are not a crime...]
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Damn a dormant vagina?
For the rest of life.

No thanks

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Not wanting kids or a life partner is a an atypical choice,
It's natural to want kids and and partner.

It's ok if you don't its not like its illegal but the innanet starting to act like wanting those things is a result of brain washing...it's not
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Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Originally posted by AmyAmyAmy AmyAmyAmy wrote:

Originally posted by Positive K Positive K wrote:

Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

Originally posted by Positive K Positive K wrote:

Some women that want a family and husband will have to work harder to attain that versus others. Some women want a family but if they having trouble to get it act like they fine with being childless and single.
 
work harder?  lmaooo.  like how?
 


Some women ain't that attractive Dead Some of my lady friends come up to me like "Positive, I'm just having trouble with men...I can't seem to meet men that really want to date seriously and pursue something long-term. My other girlfriends are in serious relationships but for me it is difficult. I think all the black men going to BRAZIL!!!" But then I look at her body and she built like Rick Ross and I just smh. These women gotta work HARDER and correct their flaws (many times physical). They smart and not becoming babymamas, but that's not the end all be all to finding a man that wants to marry you.



This is trueCry


"unattractive" females are like the main ones with husbands from what I notice. 

Yeah I see this too. The fat/ugly girls I knew in high school are already married by 23 (typically to fat/ugly guys). 
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When I'm single, I want to be alone. When I'm alone, I want to be in a relationship. But I do know that I want a husband. A family to me was always me and my husband; no kids. Add a jump off once in a while to the equation and I'll be the happiest 50 year old childless woman you ever meet.
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Originally posted by goodm3 goodm3 wrote:


Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

i know plenty of women like this..they seem content
some may not be
it's unfortunate that men never have to make these decisions


VERY true...
that's bullsh*t.

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No,I feel sorry for people who want kids and can't have them..I felt sorry for my husband his 1 st child died within the first 6 weeks...I feel bad because of the emptiness many of those parents feel..
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