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Flowing-Ice 
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 Posted: Mar 21 2013 at 8:13pm |
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i kind of do feel bad for them.
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nitabug
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Posted: Mar 21 2013 at 8:16pm |
 Positive K wrote:
nitabug wrote:
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Some women that want a family and husband will have to work harder to attain that versus others. Some women want a family but if they having trouble to get it act like they fine with being childless and single.
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I have to work harder to attain a LTR with someone who is at terms with me never wanting to have children with them. Especially men.
Men talk alot of sh*t, but most of the ones I've met do want kids and they don't like the idea or the ego crushing of you wanting them, but not their offspring.
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You are very rare. Men meet a woman that doesn't want kids and that is shocking. But I'm sure there are some out there looking for a woman like you. Yall should have a dating site exclusively for people who don't want kids. I'm sure the older u get tho, you'll meet men that have had kids and don't want anymore. But would u want a man with kids already?
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Not at this point, no. The ones I meet lie and I always catch them in lies. I am starting to meet the childless men and women...who childless, but not by choice. & they are annoying.
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Posted: Mar 21 2013 at 10:50pm |
When people want something outside of the cookie cutter life, it's wrong...
Go to college---> start your career----->find a man--->marry him---> white picket fence----> kids---> happily ever after
dormant vaginas are not a crime...]
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Posted: Mar 21 2013 at 11:04pm |
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Damn a dormant vagina?
For the rest of life.
No thanks
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Posted: Mar 21 2013 at 11:08pm |
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Not wanting kids or a life partner is a an atypical choice,
It's natural to want kids and and partner.
It's ok if you don't its not like its illegal but the innanet starting to act like wanting those things is a result of brain washing...it's not
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Posted: Mar 21 2013 at 11:37pm |
ms_wonderland wrote:
AmyAmyAmy wrote:
Positive K wrote:
ThoughtCouture wrote:
Positive K wrote:
Some women that want a family and husband will have to work harder to attain that versus others. Some women want a family but if they having trouble to get it act like they fine with being childless and single.
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work harder? lmaooo. like how?
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Some women ain't that attractive  Some of my lady friends come up to me like "Positive, I'm just having trouble with men...I can't seem to meet men that really want to date seriously and pursue something long-term. My other girlfriends are in serious relationships but for me it is difficult. I think all the black men going to BRAZIL!!!" But then I look at her body and she built like Rick Ross and I just smh. These women gotta work HARDER and correct their flaws (many times physical). They smart and not becoming babymamas, but that's not the end all be all to finding a man that wants to marry you.
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"unattractive" females are like the main ones with husbands from what I notice.
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Yeah I see this too. The fat/ugly girls I knew in high school are already married by 23 (typically to fat/ugly guys).
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Posted: Mar 22 2013 at 12:53am |
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When I'm single, I want to be alone. When I'm alone, I want to be in a relationship. But I do know that I want a husband. A family to me was always me and my husband; no kids. Add a jump off once in a while to the equation and I'll be the happiest 50 year old childless woman you ever meet.
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Posted: Mar 22 2013 at 5:35am |
goodm3 wrote:
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i know plenty of women like this..they seem contentsome may not be it's unfortunate that men never have to make these decisions |
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that's bullsh*t.
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Posted: Mar 22 2013 at 5:43am |
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No,I feel sorry for people who want kids and can't have them..I felt sorry for my husband his 1 st child died within the first 6 weeks...I feel bad because of the emptiness many of those parents feel..
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Well, who wants to bring children into a world like that?
