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modelbusiness82 
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 Posted: Mar 21 2013 at 1:40pm |
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I don't want kids. As long my mind stays the same, I won't have
them when I 50. Don't feel bad for me though, because I'm gonna ball and
go on vacations while y'all are stuck taking care of a bunch of brats. I'll spoil my nieces and nephews though. |
You sound like my sister lol! 
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modelbusiness82
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Posted: Mar 21 2013 at 1:41pm |
goodm3 wrote:
Its really not about "having kids"..its moreso about having someone to share these accomplishments with.
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Some people really are happy single. Or just having LTRs their whole life. It wouldn't be my choice, but not everyone is cut out for "til death do us part".
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Posted: Mar 21 2013 at 1:58pm |
modelbusiness82 wrote:
goodm3 wrote:
Its really not about "having kids"..its moreso about having someone to share these accomplishments with.
Could you live the single life forever? |
Some people really are happy single. Or just having LTRs their whole life. It wouldn't be my choice, but not everyone is cut out for "til death do us part".
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I agree....but I think its human nature to want some form of companionship,no?
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Posted: Mar 21 2013 at 2:10pm |
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if it was a choice they made then why would i feel sorry for them? marriage and kids aint for everyone. i dont feel sorry for the young woman whose life is wrapped up in her kids and husband only. not every woman wants to be a career woman. some are happy being a homemaker.
there are pros and cons to both situations. thats just life though.
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Posted: Mar 21 2013 at 2:26pm |
goodm3 wrote:
modelbusiness82 wrote:
goodm3 wrote:
Its really not about "having kids"..its moreso about having someone to share these accomplishments with.
Could you live the single life forever? |
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people really are happy single. Or just having LTRs their whole life.
It wouldn't be my choice, but not everyone is cut out for "til death do
us part".
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I agree....but I think its human nature to want some form of companionship,no? |
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some people aren't good at sharing. And I think we can all agree that
any LTR whether it's marriage or pure cohabitation without legal is ALL
about sharing. If you don't feel like always having to consider someone
else in the majority of the decisions you make, then having a partner of
any kind may not be an option. So, I wouldn't look at them funny for
making that choice.
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Posted: Mar 21 2013 at 2:27pm |
If more people decided that they would not be fit enough to be parents... this world would be a better place p.s Anybody having problems posting? I'm getting an error message I've never received before 
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Posted: Mar 21 2013 at 2:29pm |
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I have a family. I don't need children to have one of those...it came with the "human" package.
If all my family died, I'd still be content with friends, and if they died...welp...there's bhm
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Posted: Mar 21 2013 at 2:33pm |
Im on the same page with SL........he really wants a child but im just not ready.......sometimes I think I dont even want kids......would I be okay being that auntie........I honestly dont know......but if i dont have a child by 30 I won't ever have children.......
I dont feel sad......their life.
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If I have children, I have them. If I don't welp that's that. Because I will become Immortal....
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Posted: Mar 21 2013 at 2:39pm |
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I put having a family over having a career, but I definitely want both. I don't think it is as hard as it looks, my mother did all by herself.
But the career has to come first for me, because who will feed the children if I dont work hard?
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