Black Hair Media Forum Homepage
BHM BHM BHM
Forum Home Forum Home > Lets Talk > Talk, Talk, and More Talk
  New Posts New Posts RSS Feed - Betrayal or Overreacting?
  FAQ FAQ  Forum Search   Register Register  Login Login
Angkor Cambodian Hair
 

Betrayal or Overreacting?

 
 Post Reply Post Reply Page  123 4>
It Always Begin With Beautiful Hair

Bootiful Cream



Author
JeriMK55 View Drop Down
Senior Member
Senior Member
Avatar

Joined: May 04 2012
Status: Offline
Points: 2245
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote JeriMK55 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Topic: Betrayal or Overreacting?
    Posted: Aug 06 2014 at 3:34pm
Sooo lets say you had a problem with driving and never ever drove whenever you would hang out with two of your friends. Your friends always drive and you never really talk about your driving issues or you try to down play the issue. If your two friends told you that they had discussed together ways to come to you a discuss your lack of driving, would you feel upset and walk away from the conversation? Then ignore them when they text/call later?

Back to Top
Sponsored Links


Back to Top
ThoughtCouture View Drop Down
Elite Member
Elite Member
Avatar

Joined: Jun 08 2006
Location: southside holla
Status: Offline
Points: 241477
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (4) Thanks(4)   Quote ThoughtCouture Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Aug 06 2014 at 3:36pm
honesty and transparency is always the best policy imo.  just tell them why you can't/won't drive...
Back to Top
ThoughtCouture View Drop Down
Elite Member
Elite Member
Avatar

Joined: Jun 08 2006
Location: southside holla
Status: Offline
Points: 241477
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote ThoughtCouture Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Aug 06 2014 at 3:37pm
and if it were me....no i wouldn't be mad that it was discussed or brought to my attention. 
Back to Top
callmeDEva View Drop Down
Elite Member
Elite Member
Avatar

Joined: Aug 02 2010
Status: Offline
Points: 55963
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote callmeDEva Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Aug 06 2014 at 3:38pm
Are they coming to you in a caring way? Maybe they want you to express what your issues are and are offering an ear to listen
Back to Top
Gkisses View Drop Down
Elite Member
Elite Member
Avatar

Joined: Jul 12 2008
Location: CrackaIsland
Status: Offline
Points: 403099
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote Gkisses Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Aug 06 2014 at 3:38pm
Overreacting. But they're annoyed take the hint and drive yaself.
Back to Top
ThoughtCouture View Drop Down
Elite Member
Elite Member
Avatar

Joined: Jun 08 2006
Location: southside holla
Status: Offline
Points: 241477
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (2) Thanks(2)   Quote ThoughtCouture Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Aug 06 2014 at 3:40pm
and why are you ignoring them?  you really won't have a ride then...or are you planning to find some new friends to drive you around?
Back to Top
K_Camille View Drop Down
Elite Member
Elite Member
Avatar

Joined: Sep 14 2012
Status: Offline
Points: 35186
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote K_Camille Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Aug 06 2014 at 3:44pm
You're overreacting.  As long as they aren't condescending..then I don't see the problem.   They probably discussed it together to figure out how to approach the subject respectfully.
Back to Top
Lady ICE View Drop Down
Elite Member
Elite Member
Avatar

Joined: Jun 07 2007
Location: Gotham City
Status: Offline
Points: 278377
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote Lady ICE Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Aug 06 2014 at 3:54pm
overreacting.
Back to Top
thewonderfulwa View Drop Down
Elite Member
Elite Member
Avatar

Joined: May 19 2007
Status: Offline
Points: 53440
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote thewonderfulwa Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Aug 06 2014 at 3:57pm
I think youre overreaacting because they didnt seem to be doing anything malicious theyre coming to together to help you its probably becoming annoying that yall cant rotate who drives.

I wouldnt ignore my friends I would explain how I feel and listen to what they have to say
Back to Top
ms_wonderland View Drop Down
Elite Member
Elite Member
Avatar

Joined: Apr 05 2009
Location: TTT
Status: Offline
Points: 310114
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (11) Thanks(11)   Quote ms_wonderland Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Aug 06 2014 at 3:58pm
no one wants to chauffeur around other grown ups.
Back to Top
Get Longer Healthier Faster Growing Hair
Get Healthier Stronger Longer Hair
Glam Twinz
Weave Connection
Little Black Scarf
Human Hair Wigs
Wefting Training
Brazilian Hair
Brazilian Hair
Wig and Hair Extension on Amazon
 Post Reply Post Reply Page  123 4>
  Share Topic   

Forum Jump Forum Permissions View Drop Down