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Originally posted by iliveforbhm iliveforbhm wrote:

Most blacks do not have the ability to turn children into great leaders and innovators. They give them a bible for decoration, tell them a lot of inaccurate nonesense and the schools teach them nothing and the child grows up with confidence of bullshyt and life tells them they were bullshyted their whole lives and they wind up in the Ghettos.


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Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

Its a combo.. 
natural common sense mixed with things you've seen/observed/planned 

but i think that it comes naturally for some.. 
i think parenting can be similar to a box of chocolates.. and there will be new obstacles/issues you may have never expected but you learn and grow with time. 

people say id be a great mom Cool





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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:

Originally posted by iliveforbhm iliveforbhm wrote:

Most blacks do not have the ability to turn children into great leaders and innovators. They give them a bible for decoration, tell them a lot of inaccurate nonesense and the schools teach them nothing and the child grows up with confidence of bullshyt and life tells them they were bullshyted their whole lives and they wind up in the Ghettos.


have you seen this happen to a lot of people you know?

just wondering where this observation came from



This all day... he's on BHM, and telling us how to birth a child? Just wow, GTFOH...


I think he wants to be a female. LOL>>> HEHE
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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:

Originally posted by iliveforbhm iliveforbhm wrote:

Most blacks do not have the ability to turn children into great leaders and innovators. They give them a bible for decoration, tell them a lot of inaccurate nonesense and the schools teach them nothing and the child grows up with confidence of bullshyt and life tells them they were bullshyted their whole lives and they wind up in the Ghettos.


have you seen this happen to a lot of people you know?

just wondering where this observation came from
 
Well, in columbus, ohio definitely for sure and in a lot of other cities that I have lived in and went to. Look at Tennesse.
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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:

Originally posted by iliveforbhm iliveforbhm wrote:

Most blacks do not have the ability to turn children into great leaders and innovators. They give them a bible for decoration, tell them a lot of inaccurate nonesense and the schools teach them nothing and the child grows up with confidence of bullshyt and life tells them they were bullshyted their whole lives and they wind up in the Ghettos.


have you seen this happen to a lot of people you know?

just wondering where this observation came from
His personal experience?
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Originally posted by mommykat mommykat wrote:

Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:

Originally posted by iliveforbhm iliveforbhm wrote:

Most blacks do not have the ability to turn children into great leaders and innovators. They give them a bible for decoration, tell them a lot of inaccurate nonesense and the schools teach them nothing and the child grows up with confidence of bullshyt and life tells them they were bullshyted their whole lives and they wind up in the Ghettos.


have you seen this happen to a lot of people you know?

just wondering where this observation came from



This all day... he's on BHM, and telling us how to birth a child? Just wow, GTFOH...


I think he wants to be a female. LOL>>> HEHE
 
So only women can parent? I didn't know gender/sex was the issue when it comes to parenting. I learn something new today.
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But such a bold statement to make without offering a solution. Huge pet peeve on mine when it comes to negroes...
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Originally posted by blaquefoxx blaquefoxx wrote:

But such a bold statement to make without offering a solution. Huge pet peeve on mine when it comes to negroes...
 
There is no solution for the fallen negrodrials. They are gone forever. The ones who can make it can use their situation to show other negros that their way is destructive and work with those and anyone who wants to follow them can but can never be fcuked with again.
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. . . and the BHM generalizations and conjecturing continues. I really wish those who are not parents would refrain before contributing unbased opinions on successfully raising children.

As a parent of twin 14 year old boys, I can honestly say it's not an easy job, nor something you're ever fully prepared for. However, being raised in a two-parent household, it at least gave me a foundation to start from. My parents admit to making mistakes raising us, just like their parents made mistakes raising them. All you can do, like all other achievements in life, is hope to do better than the previous generations.
The mistakes my parents did make, I made it a point not to make those same mistakes. For example, my parents didn't really say "I love you" very often. Therefore, I made and continue to make it a point to tell my sons I love you every chance I get. And even now, I make it a point to tell my parents I love them whenever I get the opportunity. Furthermore, I got my ass beat when I was kid and I didn't like the way it made me feel about myself. I vowed to never beat my kids, and I never have (of course they've been popped a time or two), but I try to raise them with positive reinforcement instead of negative reinforcement.
I think having both parents involved in a child's life is crucial, however single parent households can and do thrive as well with additional effort.
A lot of the children the OP are referring to are missing fundamental needs in the hierarchy of needs pyramid, and their parents likely never had those needs fulfilled either. It can be a detrimental cycle

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