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Do you believe that being a great, loving parent comes naturally or is it something that is taught?

Who is responsible for teaching our women and men how to be good parents? The state, government, relatives or the community?

Do you think the reason why these little demon seeds are terrorizing people is because their parents weren't properly taught how to raise their kids?

BHM parents, did someone teach you or did you teach yourself along the way? Would you have preferred if someone (either mom, grandma, dad, etc) guided you in raising you kids? Do you think someone trying to guide you is "over stepping or being disrespectful? 
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Originally posted by blaquefoxx blaquefoxx wrote:

Do you believe that being a great, loving parent comes naturally or is it something that is taught? combination

Who is responsible for teaching our women and men how to be good parents? The state, government, relatives or the community? relatives and the community

Do you think the reason why these little demon seeds are terrorizing people is because their parents weren't properly taught how to raise their kids? possibly and/or they are selfish

BHM parents, did someone teach you or did you teach yourself along the way? Would you have preferred if someone (either mom, grandma, dad, etc) guided you in raising you kids? Do you think someone trying to guide you is "over stepping or being disrespectful?

can be a combination of things

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I think it's a combination of multiple factors. I believe some people are born with a nurturing instinct others learn to nurture. You draw on experiences from your own upbringing to determine how u want to raise your kids and also learn by observing what works for other people
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I think a lot of it's learned. I plan to take a lot of ways I was raised with my own children.
There's some things I didn't agree with that I plan to seek advice on or play by ear.
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Its a combo.. 
natural common sense mixed with things you've seen/observed/planned 

but i think that it comes naturally for some.. 
i think parenting can be similar to a box of chocolates.. and there will be new obstacles/issues you may have never expected but you learn and grow with time. 

people say id be a great mom Cool


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One thing I don't like is when people say "well that's how I was raised and I turned out ok" . But looking at their lives they Clearly failed at life.
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Originally posted by melikey melikey wrote:

One thing I don't like is when people say "well that's how I was raised and I turned out ok" . But looking at their lives they Clearly failed at life.
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Originally posted by blaquefoxx blaquefoxx wrote:

Do you believe that being a great, loving parent comes naturally or is it something that is taught? mostly taught/modeled. some pick it up faster, better than others. and some don't pick it up at all. however, i do believe in maternal instinct. 

Who is responsible for teaching our women and men how to be good parents? The state, government, relatives or the community? i think the latter 2. it takes a village. 

Do you think the reason why these little demon seeds are terrorizing people is because their parents weren't properly taught how to raise their kids? my usual theory is that, more often than not, kids aren't bad, parents are bad at with they do. so yes, i do think that parents who don't know better/different can't do better/different. however, there will be those kids that will come from a "good" home and be deviant fcuk ups as well. 

BHM parents, did someone teach you or did you teach yourself along the way? Would you have preferred if someone (either mom, grandma, dad, etc) guided you in raising you kids? Do you think someone trying to guide you is "over stepping or being disrespectful? N/A


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Originally posted by melikey melikey wrote:

One thing I don't like is when people say "well that's how I was raised and I turned out ok" . But looking at their lives they Clearly failed at life.

Omg yes...see it all the time offline and on here meanwhile they're all types of struggling with simple life choices.  I will not raise my kids how i was raised.  Not living in denial is a helluva thing.
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