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    Posted: Apr 30 2014 at 12:07pm
Have you ever been the only one who is single amongst your friends to the point where you feel a little jealous of those in relationships, particularly your friends. Where you try to be happy for them but you're just a little envious that you are still single.

How have you dealt with it?
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I have not but just wanted to say, if this is you, sorry you are feeling this way.  Chin up!
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Don't be envious. When you sit through some of the issues people in relationships go through you'd be glad you're waiting on your relationship to happen. It moreso upsets me when people feel bad for you for being single.
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No. Not because other people's relationships may not be what it seems but because the time i spend being jealous could be spent working on myself.
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lol I'm single but I'm definitely not jealous...a lot of relationships are not what they seem.

All of my friends have horrible relationships, been cheated on, some beat, or verbally abused (in front of me) but "he loves me" so it's ok..

Most of em are in it for the long haul too... they plan on getting married.. you can't tell them nothing.. I stopped talking...

If they like it I love it I guess...
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ming you beat me to it...

A lot of people envy their relationships too...

I just sit and think... gurl

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What about the relationships that are what they seem? Come on now don't feel good about being single because you find solace in the fact that SOME relationships aren't what they seem. That's a bit sad actually...I think feeling a little envious is normal especially when it's something you long for but you can't let that consume you. You can't allow your loneliness to get in the way of you being a good and supportive friend. You just have to stay positive and believe that your mister right will come along just as your friends did.

People are in fucced up relationships, this is true but there are GREAT relationships out there. Loving, committed, trusting and consistently growing relationships. How do you feel about those? How do you comfort yourself when faced with a loving relationship and you don't have one?
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Originally posted by sistagal sistagal wrote:

Have you ever been the only one who is single amongst your friends to the point where you feel a little jealous of those in relationships, particularly your friends. Where you try to be happy for them but you're just a little envious that you are still single.

How have you dealt with it?

The grass may look greener, but enjoy being single. There's nothing wrong with being "that friend". Don't be jealous bc at the end of the day you are accountable to no1LOL

Now if yall are going on group dates, then I have no ideaCry
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Originally posted by herwoman herwoman wrote:

What about the relationships that are what they seem? Come on now don't feel good about being single because you find solace in the fact that SOME relationships aren't what they seem. That's a bit sad actually...I think feeling a little envious is normal especially when it's something you long for but you can't let that consume you. You can't allow your loneliness to get in the way of you being a good and supportive friend. You just have to stay positive and believe that your mister right will come along just as your friends did.

People are in fucced up relationships, this is true but there are GREAT relationships out there. Loving, committed, trusting and consistently growing relationships. How do you feel about those? How do you comfort yourself when faced with a loving relationship and you don't have one?

This is true.  Such a negative outlook certainly ain't gonna help you/set you up when you actually do have the opportunity to enter a relationship.
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