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    Posted: Oct 10 2013 at 7:50am
Someone sent me this video. I want to hear your thoughts. Don't know how to make it viewable...
 
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ayo 1-star...you need to rewind & watch the video again cuz you an ole bitter bish...
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She preachin' that gospel. 
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I guess I agree with about 95% of what she said but I also feel like she's talking to little girls.  A woman knows how to be good to her man.   Its not always just about him but sometimes it IS about him.   Sometimes its about me.   I can't always get off work and go into 1950s wife mode, however,  I do wish more women realized the power of NOT flipping out about every little thing. 
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Partially agree.

Agree -
Yes, I'm still working on picking my battles.  I know some things aren't truly arguable material. When I master this, I'll be GOLDEN!

Cooking, fixing and bringing him his plate - doesn't have to be every day, but often enough.

Intercourse... of course

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I HATE the "what you won't do another woman will" saying.  ABSOLUTELY HATE that!  Certain things, I can work with, but I'm not going to go against what I believe in because 'another woman will'.  I hate that saying.  The converse is the 80-20 rule, which I more so agree with.

Majority of the time I do believe in not checking him in public, but some instances you have to.  How 'friends' see your man treat you will affect how they treat you, so you can't let him get off with saying/doing anything because his friends are around
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no thanks. Doesn't work for me.
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lol@ you can't hold the kitty hostage. You can't go to bed with your hair tied up and sweat pants on every night.

When you deny them physical intimacy, their feelings are hurt? So...

& I don't need anyone to make a blanket video about me, or who I am.
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Originally posted by nitabug nitabug wrote:

lol@ you can't hold the kitty hostage. You can't go to bed with your hair tied up and sweat pants on every night.

When you deny them physical intimacy, their feelings are hurt? So...

& I don't need anyone to make a blanket video about me, or who I am.


This.  Or about who my man is.  Hubby does all the cooking, laundry, getting the kid ready for school etc so I was kind of looking at her in the kitchen like ummmmLOL

IDK the gender assignment thing seems silly.   Everything she described could apply equally to a same sex relationship. A man to his woman.  Be good to your mate and EXPECT your mate to be good to you the way that specific person wants / needs.   

I think this is why women are going the opposite direction.  Too much absoluteness when the world has changed.

The best advice I've ever heard was if you want to know what your man wants don't ask a bunch of other women.  Ask YOUR man. 
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Confused........I think my brain cells just reverted back almost 60 years watching that vid. Dead




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I think it's funny when people say, "what you wont do, the next person will"

Well, they might -shrugs, and if they don't, I'm sure there is an app for that by now. Who cares.

I told my s/o, "If I don't perform to your standards, then you need to leave." "If we aren't happy, we need to move on."

When he tells me what he wants, and I am not willing to "give" it to him, I tell him I won't and why. Again, rinse, repeat.

I am all for being a good fit, but I am not about to fck somebody when I don't want to do so, and I don't expect them to do the same. If you are "holding out", well okay. I don't like games. So that would get old as well. I don't want someone to change who they are and how they operate. I want to see someone for who they are so I can make a valid adult decision.
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