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    Posted: May 09 2014 at 11:19am

This Mother's day is going to be very uneasy for a good friend of mine, she just found out that she has cancer.  Her children bought her a plane ticket to visit for Mothers day weekend so that they can spend time together.  She hasnt said anything yet and would prefer to tell them in person.

 
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a) Tell them before you got in town, via phone or email
b) When you get there, which may alter the mood or festivities
c) wait til after the festivities while you are there
d) wait til you get back home, then tell them
 
Think about both view points, for her as the Mom and for them as the Children.
 
****Her daughter just found out that her husband is being deployed so its already a bit high stressed.
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wait till the very last day after all the Fun stuff! then Tell
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my mother would probably never tell me tbh

well she would be she would wait until nothing else could be done....they know how sensitive I am and always tell me family is in poor health months after they find out

but I do think she should tell them face to face

if she would like to wait until the end of the weekend she can do that, but don't let them go all the way back home and then tell them
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I agree with waiting til the last day while she is there.  And let her daugther know that she wanted to give her time to accept the deployment news a bit more before she piled on another disappointment.  Either way it has to be discussed. 
 
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^^^ everything samone said. 

and i hope that treatment options for your friend are open and she beats it. 
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She got referred and accepted to the Mayo Clinic in Arizona.  It was caught early so we are thinking positive thoughts for her and her family.
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