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afrokock 
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 Posted: Mar 20 2013 at 2:12pm |
lol naw tc im just messing with her 
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ThoughtCouture
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ThoughtCouture
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Posted: Mar 20 2013 at 2:14pm |
imma use that line tho... 
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afrokock
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LovesHim
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Posted: Mar 20 2013 at 2:50pm |
I aint pushing no babies out of my twot without a husband and a house..... but other women can do what they want....
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purpulicious01
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Posted: Mar 21 2013 at 10:45am |
Yes.
If a person (male OR female) chooses to have sex with another individual, he/she is responsible for all consequences thereof. (Ofcourse, exceptions are made for rape cases because the individual did not choose to have sex.)
It is pretty simple really - I don't get why so many people have a hard time comprehending it.
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Posted: Mar 21 2013 at 10:49am |
I've had plenty conversations with women who complain about their 'baby daddies' (hate that word) and they went on about how low-down and trifling their 'baby daddy' is. I always reply, "Wait, if he is such a bad person, why'd you have sex with him?" ................
We live in a age of unaccountability, but in order to solve this 'baby mama' and 'baby daddy' epidemic which is destroying and plauging our community, we have to start by taking an honest look in the mirror and be accountable for our actions.
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Aerie
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Posted: Mar 21 2013 at 10:58am |
Ultimately it is the woman's responsibility because she's the only one responsible for her body.
Even if it was by force, there are ways to prevent pregnancies. There's abortion, or the day after pill you can take with 72 hours I think it is.
Honestly, with the day after pill (and based on the little knowledge I have on it) there's no "real" excuse for getting accidentally pregnant, other than you just didn't bother to get it. Unless it's crazy expensive, or something. I don't know.
I'm not sexually active, feel free to educate me on that point.
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Posted: Mar 21 2013 at 11:00am |
 LovesHim wrote:
I aint pushing no babies out of my twot without a husband and a house.....
but other women can do what they want.... |
yes ma'am , you can say that again. Having children is a gift that I will only share with my husband, the only man that has deserved/earned that privilege.
Ofcourse, we each do as we please, and I can't tell another person how to live their life - but I wish more women, especially AA, would take the route of having children only within the context of marriage, or atleast consider it. Many people think it is unrealistic, but it isn't - we've just been brainwashed to think so.
and statistically speaking, it aint working out that well for us- studies show that one of the many causes of poverty is having a child out of wedlock.
Edited by purpulicious01 - Mar 21 2013 at 11:01am
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aNgElIc*SoUl
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