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Originally posted by bebe88 bebe88 wrote:

So a girl put a post on ig basically saying " if you don't intend to wife a woman, don't make her your babymama"...

I agree with this BUT someone posted saying

"It is ultimately the woman's decision if she becomes pregnant...a guy will not sex a woman if she doesn't allow it. A guy will not go raw unless a woman allows it. Aaand if said woman wants raw sex she needs to make sure she is using the proper birth control".

The girl basically tried to share the blame bc yes it does take two. But do we agree that it is ultimately the woman's responsibility what happens to her body?
Yes. It's her body and responsibility if she wanna have an abortion, right? The same rules apply.
Granted there are plenty of special cases such as rape, coercion, etc where the dynamics change...
 
But ultimately each individual is responsible for their actions and their bodies.
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I know how to not have a baby.
I also know how to not have a baby by an ain't sh*t nigguh.
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Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

it takes two to cook baster and bake.



It takes two to mix the ingredients but it only takes one to bake...and frost the cake....i have no fugging clue what i just said.
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Originally posted by Positive K Positive K wrote:

Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

I know how to not have a baby.
I also know how to not have a baby by an ain't sh*t nigguh.


but what if he tricks u? its very difficult to identify men that won't make good fathers or husbands...they are sneaky and hide their ways until u get pregnant
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Yes same applies w abortion IMO
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Originally posted by bebe88 bebe88 wrote:

Yes same applies w abortion IMO

question...is it fair for a guy to refuse to pay for all or half of the cost of an abortion?
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Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

it takes two to cook baster and bake.



It takes two to mix the ingredients but it only takes one to bake...and frost the cake....i have no fugging clue what i just said.

madame...good dayLOL
u just sound hungry...pretty soon you're gonna talk about the difference between buttercream and whipped cream frosting and the uses of fondant. go have a snackLOL
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Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Originally posted by bebe88 bebe88 wrote:

Yes same applies w abortion IMO

question...is it fair for a guy to refuse to pay for all or half of the cost of an abortion?

Absolutely. 
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The result is the responsibilty of both but I hold  my self responsible for getting pregnant as I have autonomy over my own body.
And he should feel responsible for impregnating ...
 
All of that can happen at the same time.
More than enough personal responsibilty to go around


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We need baby mamas to speak on this.
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