| Belladonna1 wrote:|
Now that you have a child, especially a daughter, you must be a positive
role model for your child. That means going to school, getting a good
job, providing for your daughter, and dating people who respects you! A
man who puts his hands on you will likely put his hands on your child
one day! Besides, your daughter might see how he behaves towards you and
thinks that is the way a man is supposed to treat a woman! If he ask to
be part of his daughter life, first, put his ass on child support and
then go to family court and get a supervised visit court order.
i agree with all of this. i hope for your daughters sake, you don't just drop her off with him and call it a day. please line things up in a way that there is a supervised visit stating his violent temper as a reason.
she can know him, but just with someone else around. also, i would like to see how he acts when out. of course in jail they sing a different tune.
please be strong and move forward in life for the sake of your daughter. and PLEASE do not go back to mess with this dude and end of with baby # 2.