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rickysrose 
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 Posted: Jan 01 2013 at 12:35pm |
lol just saw your post
yeah my side eye is keen with new people, especially people auditioning for the inner circle ... I trust them with things that aren't vital until their intentions become clearer and clearer
it's natural to be skeptical of strangers, acquaintances or people that have shown themselves to be untrustworthy and I do have my people that I've known for years that I still keep at arms length
but I wouldnt say that I feel they'll inevitably mess up/harm/deceive me but I also don't put myself in situations where I'd have to rely on them either
interesting to read how other people tick
Edited by rickysrose - Jan 01 2013 at 12:39pm
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SamoneLenior
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Posted: Jan 01 2013 at 12:36pm |
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there is a level trust in just disclosing information about your life though
a causal personal convo requires trust
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dijah.love
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Posted: Jan 01 2013 at 12:37pm |
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I never "completely" trust anyone, however, everyone starts off with a normal amount of trust.
When they do their first trife-life blunder, the little bit I had is gone completely.
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Posted: Jan 01 2013 at 12:45pm |
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the one thing ive tried to disclose to people always gets thrown back in my face as if im supposed to believe its an insult
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OoDles O
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Posted: Jan 01 2013 at 1:35pm |
I dont know
eventually you decide that its worth it to trust this person completely and take the leap.
Sometimes you can openly trust someone with one thing and completely not trust them with something else.
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Posted: Jan 01 2013 at 1:38pm |
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I don't have even trust myself.
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melikey
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Posted: Jan 01 2013 at 1:40pm |
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Oh, and I never think/assume people are lying or deceitful unless the say/do something that doesn't line up.
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Yardgirl
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Posted: Jan 01 2013 at 1:42pm |
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I trust him not to physically harm me or cheat on me but I don't trust him with my future.
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Posted: Jan 01 2013 at 3:39pm |
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hmmm....from what i've read on here. U don't. Not your girlfriend, not your husband, not nobody. U do not completely and fully trust no one.
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Posted: Jan 01 2013 at 4:28pm |
I will put it this way, the very few people that I trust completely have earned it. It took them years to earn my trust. The only people who I truly ever trusted with every fiber of my being was my Mom(RIP) and my sister. I started my permanent inner circle out with the normal trust that people start out with when becoming friends.. Over time, the trust I had in them grew and grew and now I trust them completely and vice versa.
Anyone that happens to come along in my future will have the normal amount of trust that people have when beginning to get to know people. They will have to pass the test of time to get in my heart and inner circle..
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