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 Posted: Nov 17 2012 at 1:14pm |
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I won't say every woman that makes it to 30 without marriage is sad or unrealistic...but a lot of women are trying to wait for something that doesn't exist...they won't ever get married until they figure out what is it inside of them that is stopping them from meeting and connecting with a decent dude |
i don't think thats true.
a lot of women have very realistic standards.
they just ... have bad decision making and judgement. |
the stats prove otherwise
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And I know there are many other factors...because there are millions of ways/combinations to fail.
& no...the person who just married anybody isnt better, just like the person who starved themselves isn't any better, nor is the person who robbed the poor...
but that is a different conversation, and just puts the light else where...which might be the reason why it's taking some people 10+ years
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Posted: Nov 17 2012 at 1:17pm |
Sang Froid wrote:
Positive K wrote:
I won't say every woman that makes it to 30 without marriage is sad or unrealistic...but a lot of women are trying to wait for something that doesn't exist...they won't ever get married until they figure out what is it inside of them that is stopping them from meeting and connecting with a decent dude |
Black men end up staying with a nigguh that ain't never gone marry their asses.
We see this more often. |
blk women & yes I see it all the time. on bhm & irl. Ruining the natural order & stunting the growth of progress
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Posted: Nov 17 2012 at 1:18pm |
nitabug wrote:
Let me be clear. I am not talking about ALL women. I am talking about a population of women.
those that want to be married early, early twenties or so....will panic around 27-29 and are like 30+...lets just say 35ish AND STILL UNWED.
It's sad that you thought about wedding bells since childhood/teens, became an adult and it never happened. You've been wanting it to happen but it just. never. did. Sad...AF.
Just like someone who is fat, and dieting for 10 plus years and never has lost weight.
Just like someone who has bad credit/finances and after 10+ years is still broke after trying...for all that time.
Someone is going about reaching their destination in the wrong way. It's like watching a dementia patient trying to find his/her way home. 
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Posted: Nov 17 2012 at 1:21pm |
uppitynegroid wrote:
nitabug wrote:
Let me be clear. I am not talking about ALL women. I am talking about a population of women.
those that want to be married early, early twenties or so....will panic around 27-29 and are like 30+...lets just say 35ish AND STILL UNWED.
It's sad that you thought about wedding bells since childhood/teens, became an adult and it never happened. You've been wanting it to happen but it just. never. did. Sad...AF.
Just like someone who is fat, and dieting for 10 plus years and never has lost weight.
Just like someone who has bad credit/finances and after 10+ years is still broke after trying...for all that time.
Someone is going about reaching their destination in the wrong way. It's like watching a dementia patient trying to find his/her way home.
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Posted: Nov 17 2012 at 1:23pm |
Bunnyahh wrote:
Flowing-Ice wrote:
Positive K wrote:
I won't say every woman that makes it to 30 without marriage is sad or unrealistic...but a lot of women are trying to wait for something that doesn't exist...they won't ever get married until they figure out what is it inside of them that is stopping them from meeting and connecting with a decent dude |
i don't think thats true.
a lot of women have very realistic standards.
they just ... have bad decision making and judgement. |
the stats prove otherwise |
that people have unrealistic standards?
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Posted: Nov 17 2012 at 1:28pm |
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Some women have unrealistic standards until they get older, then those preferences start coming down. Like that chick on that ABC special talking bout "At first he had to be 6'5, then it came down to 6'3, then 6'0...."
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lol. i think thats why many older women find "love at first sight" they don't have much left to cling to.
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Posted: Nov 17 2012 at 1:44pm |
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Well then Nita, I'd have to agree with you. If you set out to do something from an early age and never accomplish it, then that makes you a failure. Like I said though, that makes you human. We all will fail at something or at least we're not all a complete success at everything we set out to do. Marriage, parenting, career, finances, the list goes on.
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Posted: Nov 17 2012 at 2:08pm |
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Interesting thread....
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Posted: Nov 17 2012 at 2:24pm |
I hope I'm settled down by age 27. My mama's been askin for grandkids since I was 17  , so I will panic if I ain't murried wit kids by then.
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