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Originally posted by used2braid used2braid wrote:

Alright ladies, lets be completely real here.
 
Aside from the reassurance that "God will provide" at what age will you go "oh shoot, I gotta get on that!" if you're not married or in a serious relationship.
 
If you're already married, at what age did you think you were going to get married and what age did you end up getting married?
 
For my own personal self, I think by age 30 I don't got a serious something-something going on...Thumbs Down
 
 
tbh, there is no age limit
 
I started to get serious about marriage in my early 20s because that was the ideal age for me to marry ( which is "young" according to today's standards).  But if I reach my 30s and am not married, I wouldn't start to panic.
 
I've learn to let things run their natural course and be content. Muslims/we have a well known saying in our faith "We plan, but God is the best of all planners." If I'm not married by the age I 'plan' to be married, then I would exercise patience and understand that there is a reason for everything.  Meanwhile, I would use that time to concentrate, improve, and focus on myself;  finish goals and spend time doing the things that I will not have time to do once I get married and start raising a family.
 
So to answer the OP, there is really no age limit
 


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i never really gave it much thought
 
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Panic may be the wrong word but by 35 is whn I want to be married and have my fam underway.

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Originally posted by used2braid used2braid wrote:

How are you now?!
 

If you don't mind me askinnnngGeek

Is this for me? If so, in not where I want to be in my career...I'm not where I want to be financially....I haven't decided if I'm moving back to my hometown....I haven't decided where I want to go to grad school (hometown or GA). I have to figure all of this out within the next year
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote smaison Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 14 2012 at 11:03am
I have no interest in kids whatsoever.
Not sure about marriage either.
In a great relationship right now, if it ended, would not be the end of the world.
Don't wanna be alone though.
But no panic, I'm great and I haven't been single since kindergarten.
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Thought I would get married at 25
Actual age: 26
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I'm 29.9 LOL

By the time I'm 32, I'd like to be planning my wedding. I'm cool with having my first child at 33/34.

If I'm 31 and single, I'll start to panic 


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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (4) Thanks(4)   Quote Bunnyahh Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 14 2012 at 11:16am
repost.
 
I did this same thread long ago.
maybe not the exact same, but quite similar.
 
From what I've gathered in that thread, most of bhm will remain unmarried because they refuse to change their intolerable ways or compromise their list like Chili
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I already got part of the package but want 1 more child to complete things...this has to happen before I turn 33 or I will panic.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Harmonii Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 14 2012 at 11:23am
Well I'm 34..I panicked around age 28 now I've come to grips and decided if its meant to be it will happen. Sometimes I do panic a little bit, but not like when I was in my 20's.
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