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Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

I wish people would stop acting like its abnormal to want a mate.
It's natural.

Wanting a man/marriage and never getting it by 30ish+ is sad as fck, imho. You either make bad decisions or have horrible social skills.

I mean come on, 10+years of failingConfused That is sad. & to be fearful that it isn't going to happen 10 years later from setting the goal. Sadder
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They won't listen.  They see no flaws in their faults.  They think its supposed to be that way
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Originally posted by melly melly wrote:

I believe that things happen when their supposed to happen, not when you want it to happen.


errr. meh. 
i'm sure if some women didn't see their ultimate goal is having sex w/ every man they can... some women would be married earlier. 
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Originally posted by nitabug nitabug wrote:

Wanting a man/marriage and never getting it by 30ish+ is sad as fck, imho. You either make bad decisions or have horrible social skills.

I mean come on, 10+years of failingConfused That is sad. & to be fearful that it isn't going to happen 10 years later from setting the goal. Sadder


I'm pretty sure every woman in this thread knows a man that will date/marry her. It's not so much about checking it off the list as it is finding someone of quality whom you're attracted to, with a similar intellect, ambition, life goals etc. etc.
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Idk babydoll, after 10+ years and a billion ppl in the world, you haven't found quality? Seems like an excuse.

Edited by nitabug - Nov 17 2012 at 12:43pm
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Originally posted by Bunnyahh Bunnyahh wrote:

They won't listen.  They see no flaws in their faults.  They think its supposed to be that way

I think I am just going to stick with this.
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That's the thing. Quality isn't the only requirement. I've met quality guys that I just don't mesh with on a romantic level. There's a lot of aspects that are necessary for someone to be your life partner. And it's hard to find all those aspects mixed in one person.

I just wouldn't be so quick to label people as "sad." We all know the limitations of the dating pool outchea.

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after 10+ years, sh*t, you should have a better algorithm than pandora by then.

I get it, but I don't buy it. It's still sad. Certain goals unaccomplished are just sad to me after a decade has passed.


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If you feel it's sad then that's your opinion. I'm just differentiating between the so called "goal" and the reality. If it was just a "goal" most could check it off in a certain time limit. I just wouldn't label people as "sad" for holding out for something real.
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