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nitabug
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Posted: Jan 14 2013 at 9:13pm |
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bot/nephew. I would stress the importance of NEVER ejaculating in a girl, unless you are both tested and with someone you not only trust, but are willing to be financially obligated to for 18-25 years. I would remind him that a decision like that is not a wise one to make as a child or worth the risk. It can cost him a life time of health concerns. Then I'd let him know that I'd be disappointed if he did, regardless of the outcome.
If he was gay, I'd really stress it, because depending on what he does, transmission risks increase drastically.
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Posted: Jan 14 2013 at 9:29pm |
OMG, thanks nita. I totally forgot about masturbation. I dont remember when I started, but my mom caught me at 5. Im stuck on going over the actual act of sex. Im Christian.
nitabug wrote:
never too early, imo. Just keep it age appropriate. At 8, my niece will know a lot, but I doubt I will talk about masturbation....the 12 year old, probably. She'd know about condoms, sex, orgasms, std's, childbirth, etc.
*I don't know your religous beliefs
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Posted: Jan 14 2013 at 9:31pm |
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I'm in my mid twenties and I'm still waiting on mine  |
This. Never got a sex talk but I have yet to have my child so IDK how old she will be when I decide to have a sex talk.
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Posted: Jan 14 2013 at 9:32pm |
My parents never had one wit me.
Junior Jr wrote:
im 23 and i still dont think i've had one with my parents :/
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nitabug
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Posted: Jan 14 2013 at 9:35pm |
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In that case, it would be good to teach christian principles at the same time. Talk about the faith based consequences and expectations as well.
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ms_wonderland
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Posted: Jan 14 2013 at 9:37pm |
my mom never gave me the talk.
i gave my sister the talk when she was 13.
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Posted: Jan 14 2013 at 9:39pm |
Junior Jr wrote:
im 23 and i still dont think i've had one with my parents :/
jr. | Me either...
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Bored w/Out Me?
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Posted: Jan 14 2013 at 9:44pm |
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Never, He learned @school where most of us did...
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Posted: Jan 14 2013 at 9:47pm |
Your a good sister.
ms_wonderland wrote:
my mom never gave me the talk.
i gave my sister the talk when she was 13. |
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