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Alias_Avi
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Posted: May 28 2014 at 11:38am |
I'm not giving up on you guys I believe that one day we'll all have enough courage to address behaviors that are particular to us without worrying what anyone else will say about our conversation ... one day
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Diane (35)
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Joined: Sep 16 2006
Location: Jamrock
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Points: 49454
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Posted: May 28 2014 at 11:41am |
Wait a minute rhinestone cap lady was in the melee too and left her son unattended, smmfh. what if he fell through/was pushed by the crowd off the building? Jesus!
and he was crying too.
i died when she said i hope you didnt get it on tape.
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noneyons
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Posted: May 28 2014 at 11:41am |
the arrogance is astounding.
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ModelessDiva
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Posted: May 28 2014 at 11:43am |
Marcelo22 wrote:
Sometimes I think some of yall never truly interacted with hoodrats and dusty niccas on a daily basis with all this caping yall do for every ignorant thing they do. This woman was stealing weave glue out of a beauty supply store knowing damn well those Asian were looking at her ass and yall in here talking about racism | lol
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Diane (35)
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Posted: May 28 2014 at 11:50am |
ModelessDiva wrote:
Marcelo22 wrote:
Sometimes I think some of yall never truly interacted with hoodrats and dusty niccas on a daily basis with all this caping yall do for every ignorant thing they do. This woman was stealing weave glue out of a beauty supply store knowing damn well those Asian were looking at her ass and yall in here talking about racism | lol |
Sometimes and it is something i've confirmed over the years, i'm amazed at how some here (and IRL too) Can't comprehend simple, obvious things. Selective Reading and all that jazz.
No one is caping for her theft, not one person caped for the work and the customer in the first video. BUT again why would we not "cape" for a woman assaulted in such a manner? again miss me with the weave or weave glue stuff, if it was any other thing perhaps a designer item, it wouldnt matter. Stealing is wrong. Fighting is wrong. sexual assault and exposing someone is wrong. Oh yes she is a/ they are victim(s) too
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rickysrose
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Joined: Jun 28 2006
Location: Qualia
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Points: 247396
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Posted: May 28 2014 at 11:51am |
Alias_Avi wrote:
Why are we so afraid to have conversations about each other, amongst each other?
Any person who brings up behavior that is particular to our group they get the "new Black ", "uppity" or "lost and confused" without even seriously understanding nuance and context of the label
Are we incapable of talking about to each other about each other without assuming the other person cares about how we are look in front of other people?
This thread is proof that we can not. It must always boil down to the outside gaze (because that's where a weak argument can gain legs)
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First, fighting and/or stealing is not particular to our group, how dare you and f any of your nuance or context that would justify that assumption.
It is hypocritical for you to say that we can't discuss our "flaws" amongst each other when you refuse to take a critical look at your own statements
They are YOUR statements, don't blame me for your ridiculous catch phrases. Ain't no wordsmithing necessary.
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Mixer
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Posted: May 28 2014 at 11:54am |
rickysrose wrote:
Alias_Avi wrote:
Why are we so afraid to have conversations about each other, amongst each other?
Any person who brings up behavior that is particular to our group they get the "new Black ", "uppity" or "lost and confused" without even seriously understanding nuance and context of the label
Are we incapable of talking about to each other about each other without assuming the other person cares about how we are look in front of other people?
This thread is proof that we can not. It must always boil down to the outside gaze (because that's where a weak argument can gain legs)
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First, fighting and/or stealing is not particular to our group, how dare you and f any of your nuance or context that would justify that assumption.
It is hypocritical for you to say that we can't discuss our "flaws" amongst each other when you refuse to take a critical look at your own statements
They are YOUR statements, don't blame me for your ridiculous catch phrases. Ain't no wordsmithing necessary.
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rickysrose
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Location: Qualia
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Posted: May 28 2014 at 12:01pm |
Behaviors that are particular to us????
Let me not wordsmith, which behaviors are particular to us?
Please elaborate.
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india100
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Joined: Feb 19 2008
Location: in God's hand
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Points: 156060
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Posted: May 28 2014 at 12:09pm |
I can only hear the bss fight , but if the owners strip her clothes off and beat her like a slave , all should be charge . I only purchase shampoo for my baby at one bss that never follows me around . The girl is ignorant to steal some dang fiber rat nest mess . I would sue the store for some type of physical assault after my release from jail . Asians will continue to treat black customers like crap if we buy the mess they sell . When was the last time you saw a black own beauty supply ? Banks refuse to give our people loans unless we have money , but you can come to america with no money and open shop unless you are black .
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carolina cutie
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Posted: May 28 2014 at 12:16pm |
noneyons wrote:
the arrogance is astounding. |
You just don't want an 'honest discussion' noney!  I honestly told her to go read some literature and educate herself on this subject pages ago.
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