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I thought your S.O is suppose to be a provider, your love your everything. Now if it's just some fly by night Joe then no but if it's someone you've been with for years then why not.
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Poor financial planning ..

I can imagine taking the bae away and expecting her to cough up on meals or hotel transfers .. Etc

Wtf?

However if this is an unexpected expense like she had to bail put her mom or whatever then cool, I can't guess that.. For some sh*t there's no other way round it but to ask.

I can be very aloof and a lot of things will/may go over my head ..

If it's just some regular sh*t that you should have covered anyway you may have to explain what happened.. Esp if you live with someone. It's nice to not have to explain sh*t but at the same time common courtesy.

Money is the number 1 reason fir divorce and break ups because people don't want to discuss it before hand.



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Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

I notice the women with no expectation leave the relationship bitter as fucc......
 
i've noticed this as well...again...overrated...lol
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Funny enough now that I think about.. As generous as I am, I never actually give cash out that much unless it's specific..

It's not intentional.. The bae never wants for anything generally .. Tooken care off and all that ..
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Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

Originally posted by SimplyPut SimplyPut wrote:

Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

My level of respect goes down for people who beg for money...People like that should be wiped off the earth.


She said ask. Ain't nobody begging for nothing. If I ask, it should be given.


And I said what I said. If I was talking about op, I would have stated it.


Did I say you were talking to OP?
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Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

Poor financial planning ..

I can imagine taking the bae away and expecting her to cough up on meals or hotel transfers .. Etc

Wtf?

However if this is an unexpected expense like she had to bail put her mom or whatever then cool, I can't guess that.. For some sh*t there's no other way round it but to ask.

I can be very aloof and a lot of things will/may go over my head ..

If it's just some regular sh*t that you should have covered anyway you may have to explain what happened.. Esp if you live with someone. It's nice to not have to explain sh*t but at the same time common courtesy.

Money is the number 1 reason fir divorce and break ups because people don't want to discuss it before hand.


Off topic: I always read your posts with an english accent in my head....but do ppl say "bae" across the pond?

lol...
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Lol it's "the Mrs"
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OP isn't active in this thread for a reason.
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Lort is her internet off too??? Cry



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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (2) Thanks(2)   Quote BBpants Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 14 2014 at 1:38pm
Originally posted by SimplyPut SimplyPut wrote:

Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

Originally posted by SimplyPut SimplyPut wrote:

Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

My level of respect goes down for people who beg for money...People like that should be wiped off the earth.


She said ask. Ain't nobody begging for nothing. If I ask, it should be given.


And I said what I said. If I was talking about op, I would have stated it.


Did I say you were talking to OP?


omg...get the f*ck outta my face with this dumb bullsh*t LOL bickering with me for no reason at all
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