Asking your SO for money...

I don't like ppl who always have their hands out but those arent the type of ppl i keep in my realm. In classic golddigger situations both parties know wassup so i really dont care.

Gkisses wrote: Why would anyone want to date a broke person...i mean there are ppl u have relations with and ppl u have relationships with for a reason.

I'm not even sure which one is ok to be broke.  We fuccin' broke ninja's out chere?  Dem's the main one's that need not be gettin' nobody coochie/ass/mouth/ear.

SamoneLenior wrote: I can't see myself having to be like honey I'm getting xyz so look out for that purchase or vice versa my husband isn't bad with money but I just can't see us having to let each other know when we make certain purchases we poll some money for other reasons, but after we save and pay our bills that money right there is mine to do what I want with it dare you to check me or question me

I agree with all of this when I think about the idea of having a joint account WITHOUT any separate ones.

Like.. if we're doing fine financially and I decide i want to spend $600 on a wig.. I rather feel like I spent/wasted my own money on this rather than thinking I  took our money.  I dont plan on being secretive about anything.. but just the feeling..idk

Princess Grace wrote: I hate the word gold digger, some women just have certain expectations same as men .  mumbles all of this glamorous costs,  I can't fathom being worried about my life situations and seriously dating, in a relationship, kicking on the reg. If my life is that code 10 I dont have time to date anyway. I need to get my life in order and if you aint part of the solution then .... I gots to go

Some is the keyword.  I've learned some women don't expect anything from their man other than getting laid here and there. 

I thought your S.O is suppose to be a provider, your love your everything. Now if it's just some fly by night Joe then no but if it's someone you've been with for years then why not.