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BBpants
Elite Member
Joined: Aug 24 2011
Location: No1curr
Status: Offline
Points: 214934
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Posted: May 14 2014 at 12:10am |
SimplyPut wrote:
BBpants wrote:
My level of respect goes down for people who beg for money...People like that should be wiped off the earth.
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She said ask. Ain't nobody begging for nothing. If I ask, it should be given. |
And I said what I said. If I was talking about op, I would have stated it.
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BBpants
Elite Member
Joined: Aug 24 2011
Location: No1curr
Status: Offline
Points: 214934
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Posted: May 14 2014 at 12:16am |
femmefatale85 wrote:
EPITOME wrote:
...as BHM once said "broke people dont need to be dating or procreating anyway." |
BHM told me to go to a soup kitchen because I was using dates for free meals...I'm not sure how I managed to stay here so long lol
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Gkisses
Elite Member
Joined: Jul 12 2008
Location: CrackaIsland
Status: Offline
Points: 462964
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Posted: May 14 2014 at 12:17am |
I don't like ppl who always have their hands out but those arent the type of ppl i keep in my realm. In classic golddigger situations both parties know wassup so i really dont care.
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afrokock
Elite Member
Joined: May 19 2008
Location: South London
Status: Offline
Points: 1266523
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Posted: May 14 2014 at 12:21am |
PurplePhase wrote:
afro, do you carry a money clip?
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lol.. No I just don't carry a lot of loose cash with me.
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newdiva1
Elite Member
Joined: Dec 15 2006
Location: meh
Status: Offline
Points: 238782
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Posted: May 14 2014 at 12:43am |
Gkisses wrote:
Why would anyone want to date a broke person...i mean there are ppl u have relations with and ppl u have relationships with for a reason. | I'm not even sure which one is ok to be broke. We fuccin' broke ninja's out chere? Dem's the main one's that need not be gettin' nobody coochie/ass/mouth/ear.
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newdiva1
Elite Member
Joined: Dec 15 2006
Location: meh
Status: Offline
Points: 238782
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Posted: May 14 2014 at 12:47am |
Gkisses wrote:
I don't like ppl who always have their hands out but those arent the type of ppl i keep in my realm. In classic golddigger situations both parties know wassup so i really dont care. | truth. the word "golddigger" has been misappropriated by broke ninja's.
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Lite Brite
Elite Member
Joined: Apr 23 2011
Location: Texas
Status: Offline
Points: 130721
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Posted: May 14 2014 at 1:29am |
SamoneLenior wrote:
I can't see myself having to be like honey I'm getting xyz so look out for that purchase or vice versa
my husband isn't bad with money but I just can't see us having to let each other know when we make certain purchases
we poll some money for other reasons, but after we save and pay our bills that money right there is mine to do what I want with it
dare you to check me or question me
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I agree with all of this when I think about the idea of having a joint account WITHOUT any separate ones. Like.. if we're doing fine financially and I decide i want to spend $600 on a wig.. I rather feel like I spent/wasted my own money on this rather than thinking I took our money. I dont plan on being secretive about anything.. but just the feeling..idk
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Princess Grace
Elite Member
Joined: Feb 10 2011
Location: On Your Mind
Status: Offline
Points: 137556
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Posted: May 14 2014 at 1:44am |
I bring Grace, a fork and manners to this imaginary table . 
Husband and someone you dating is way different and I have my thoughts on joint accounts and whatnot. It just seems to make the breakup messy when you fighting over couches , a toaster oven and a dog. I can't!
OP in the back of your mind you already THINK his answer is NO or you would have asked, he got the hints he just aint there with you in whatever the struggle is. Ask two people for half of whatever you need, pay them back in a timely manner and dump him.
Its not how much he has its how much he willing to give  
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uppitynegroid
Platinum Member
Joined: Jul 28 2005
Status: Offline
Points: 48719
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Posted: May 14 2014 at 5:45am |
Princess Grace wrote:
I hate the word gold digger, some women just have certain expectations same as men .
mumbles all of this glamorous costs, I can't fathom being worried about my life situations and seriously dating, in a relationship, kicking on the reg. If my life is that code 10 I dont have time to date anyway. I need to get my life in order and if you aint part of the solution then .... I gots to go |
Some is the keyword. I've learned some women don't expect anything from their man other than getting laid here and there.
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mizzsandra00
Elite Member
Joined: Oct 13 2008
Location: In my zone
Status: Offline
Points: 400515
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Posted: May 14 2014 at 6:47am |
I notice the women with no expectation leave the relationship bitter as fucc......
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