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Baby boy and girl will be taught to stay away from broke or begging SOs. I will teach them the signs.. Lol

I think people should share out of love, not personal obligation
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when i was in a relationship, my Brotha paid for everything. i financially wanted for nothing
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i never ask for money, but it's always offered

my dad told me to never take money from a man, but im grown daddy Stern Smile

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We just share our money, well his more than mine
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Originally posted by FarrahTheLibra FarrahTheLibra wrote:

Should/ do you ask?

or 

Should he volunteer?


I have his credit card right now.....He volunteers or I ask.....LOL
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (3) Thanks(3)   Quote herwoman Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 13 2014 at 5:32pm
Originally posted by melikey melikey wrote:

Baby boy and girl will be taught to stay away from broke or begging SOs. I will teach them the signs.. Lol

I think people should share out of love, not personal obligation
I have a twin brother
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i'll just say something like, "my nails look a mess"...and he will say, "they do, here, go get your nails done."  
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she gives me money all the time Smile

and nah, i don't ask

jr.


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Originally posted by herwoman herwoman wrote:

[QUOTE=melikey] Baby boy and girl will be taught to stay away from broke or begging SOs. I will teach them the signs.. Lol

I think people should share out of love, not personal obligation
I have a twin brother

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I have no issues asking.  If we were married I'd ask, so if you're dating me with the intention of marrying me, then I expect to see the prelude to our future union.

I wasn't raised with the whole "pay my half" mentality.  More like, men are responsible for providing for their family, and whatever you make as a woman is extra. 
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