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Originally posted by SimplyPut SimplyPut wrote:

Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

Yall had sex yet????ConfusedConfusedConfused

Did he feel comfortable enough to ask to get your your panties??Confused <span style="line-height: 1.4;">Then you should feel comfortable enough to ask for what you need.</span>
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<span style="line-height: 1.4;">If he is going to dump you so be it, what you waiting around for dating Scrooge??? OuchOuch</span>
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<span style="line-height: 1.4;">Nothing beats a failure but a try , shrugs shoulders....</span>
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<span style="line-height: 1.4;">Tell him he aint "tricking" he gone give you that money cause he want to,and you gone look out for him later cause YOU want to...Smile</span>
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<span style="line-height: 1.4;">I already know, take my ass to the corner CryCryCry</span>


I agree with all of this. I didn't know it was foreign for your man to pay for things. I assumed it was standard. I guess these some new age rules.


Title: ASKING your SO for money.

Originally posted by FarrahTheLibra FarrahTheLibra wrote:

Should/ do you ask?

or 

Should he volunteer?


Not quite the same discussion.


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Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

Originally posted by Bribby Bribby wrote:


I missed some words. Long story short Erica, her boo, Carlie Redd & Young Joc went to the bowling alley
I guess they drank, Carlie & Joc are leaving Joc is about to pay & Erica's boo is like naw I got it, they exit & the boo asks for Erica's card & pays with that


Oh.. now that would be an interesting discussion thread.


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What do I need the money for?

But nah... I wouldn't unless I reallyyyy had to.

Same for him.
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I don't feel comfortable asking anyone for money...but my SO got mad when I told him I missed some student loan payments so I didn't get a job...he went ahead and paid them

I said I'd pay him back and he was just like, forget it.
 
 
I hope we never break up bc I could see us going on Judge Judy
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Originally posted by AmiliaCabral AmiliaCabral wrote:

I don't feel comfortable asking anyone for money...but my SO got mad when I told him I missed some student loan payments so I didn't get a job...he went ahead and paid them

I said I'd pay him back and he was just like, forget it.
 
 
I hope we never break up bc I could see us going on Judge Judy

Did you sign anything??? ConfusedConfused If not you should be good Smile

I wish my man would ask me to sign a IOUAngryAngryAngry
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I aint sign shyt but I dont wanna deal with the drama either way
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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:

Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

 ok...i just watched the show.  i feel like whats her face already knew he was broke when she agreed to go out on that double date...


she knew

it was in the script
 
yeah she said she knew he was having difficulty getting modeling work (rolls eyes) and had paid for dates in the past.  but she tried to act like in her mind she thought he could have possibly paid for that particular date.  no mam.
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Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:


Are you cute & fit? Can you dance??? Cry
 
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Originally posted by AmiliaCabral AmiliaCabral wrote:

I aint sign shyt but I dont wanna deal with the drama either way


these hos aint loyal
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