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Originally posted by Miss B Miss B wrote:

I really can't think of a scenario where I'd ask my guy for money. The most I've asked him to do is use his card to hold something cuz I wasn't there, but I paid for it. He was never charged anything.

He has offered and I do know that he'll do anything he can for me, which I love. But based on my personal principles, if I need money for money for something that I or my parents (in emergencies) do not have, I apparently don't need it. I have yet to come across a scenario where this isn't true.

My SO is old-fashioned anyway. He'd probably rather beg on a street corner singin 80s love songs with a change cup tambourine than ask me for money.

alla dis. 

i just don't see how people get in these type of situations.
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If i have to ask we shouldn't be together.
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Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

Originally posted by Bribby Bribby wrote:

Did yall see what happened on Love & Hip Hop last night with Erica and her boo?


no, what happened?

I missed some words. Long story short Erica, her boo, Carlie Redd & Young Joc went to the bowling alley
I guess they drank, Carlie & Joc are leaving Joc is about to pay & Erica's boo is like naw I got it, they exit & the boo asks for Erica's card & pays with that
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Originally posted by Bribby Bribby wrote:


I missed some words. Long story short Erica, her boo, Carlie Redd & Young Joc went to the bowling alley
I guess they drank, Carlie & Joc are leaving Joc is about to pay & Erica's boo is like naw I got it, they exit & the boo asks for Erica's card & pays with that


Oh.. now that would be an interesting discussion thread.
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 ok...i just watched the show.  i feel like whats her face already knew he was broke when she agreed to go out on that double date...

Edited by ThoughtCouture - May 13 2014 at 3:05pm
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Yall had sex yet????ConfusedConfusedConfused

Did he feel comfortable enough to ask to get your your panties??Confused Then you should feel comfortable enough to ask for what you need.

If he is going to dump you so be it, what you waiting around for dating Scrooge??? OuchOuch

Nothing beats a failure but a try , shrugs shoulders....

Tell him he aint "tricking" he gone give you that money cause he want to,and you gone look out for him later cause YOU want to...Smile


I already know, take my ass to the corner CryCryCry
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Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

Yall had sex yet????ConfusedConfusedConfused

Did he feel comfortable enough to ask to get your your panties??Confused <span style="line-height: 1.4;">Then you should feel comfortable enough to ask for what you need.</span>
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<span style="line-height: 1.4;">If he is going to dump you so be it, what you waiting around for dating Scrooge??? OuchOuch</span>
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<span style="line-height: 1.4;">Nothing beats a failure but a try , shrugs shoulders....</span>
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<span style="line-height: 1.4;">Tell him he aint "tricking" he gone give you that money cause he want to,and you gone look out for him later cause YOU want to...Smile</span>
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<span style="line-height: 1.4;">I already know, take my ass to the corner CryCryCry</span>


I agree with all of this. I didn't know it was foreign for your man to pay for things. I assumed it was standard. I guess these some new age rules.
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Chile you hinting Confused

Is the repo man gone be driving away with your car while you hinting?
Is the sherriff coming to set out your mattress??

what kind of trouble you in girl??Confused

Are you cute & fit? Can you dance??? Cry
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Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:



I already know, take my ass to the corner CryCryCry

 
not really.Big smile
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I am very upfront with my expectations if you not into that fine , its best so its no awkward moments later. 
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