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my moneys your money ..except when theres a shoe release you come second on those days 
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Originally posted by FarrahTheLibra FarrahTheLibra wrote:

Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

Originally posted by FarrahTheLibra FarrahTheLibra wrote:

A couple things to add:

-It's a new relationship

-I NEED the money; I know he has it

-Just don't want him to think I'm a gold digger Dead
 
 
oh.  does he know that you NEED the money?????????????????????????????????????

I haven't said it in those exact words. I hate to complain. I've tried (subtly) hinting at it.

Just ask....a closed mouth won't get fed. If you two are dating, married, together period just ask him. Your either going to get a yes or a no...then you'll know what to do from that point forward. Get it another way, then don't depend or ask him for anything else. I believe that your s.o should always be there to help you out no matter what.

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Originally posted by FarrahTheLibra FarrahTheLibra wrote:

Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

Originally posted by FarrahTheLibra FarrahTheLibra wrote:

A couple things to add:

-It's a new relationship

-I NEED the money; I know he has it

-Just don't want him to think I'm a gold digger Dead
 
 
oh.  does he know that you NEED the money?????????????????????????????????????

I haven't said it in those exact words. I hate to complain. I've tried (subtly) hinting at it.
 
huh?  does he ask you how your day went?  just tell him what is going on.  that's not complaining.
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Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

can she just WANT it though?
 
yes.  if he doesn't WANT to give it.  then they may have a prollemmm....lol
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Originally posted by el_bandido el_bandido wrote:

my moneys your money ..except when theres a shoe release you come second on those days 
 
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Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

Farra, I just don't like hinting around with things lol. I'd be direct.

THIS. I need to work on that.
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Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

 
huh?  does he ask you how your day went?  just tell him what is going on.  that's not complaining.

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Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

..is that called trickin' on girls?

not every guy does it so readily. some only do it with someone they are seriously dating. some do it from day 1. the day one men---are into buying affection to a degree.


or they don't view money that way.
 
this is how i am.  even when i was broke...i didn't even really realize how broke i was...LOL 
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Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

 
huh?  does he ask you how your day went?  just tell him what is going on.  that's not complaining.

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exactly.
 
plus i wouldn't advise keeping financial problems a secret from ones for real for real S.O....
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If we're seriously dating or in a relationship and I ask him for money he better give it to me especially if he has it to spare. The only way I would ever ask is if I've already exhausted all of my other options (family members) If he can't come through for me when I need it the most what's the purpose of having him in my life???

And I've never been the type of simple minded female to go around asking men for superficial things like clothes, shoes, or handbags. If I ask for money it's for a serious reason (ex: bills, or important expenses)



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