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Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:



meh

I don't think you can't be a "power couple" if can't hold your own

hold your own can be different things, not only money



OP if knows you are struggling with something he should offer without being asked

at least offer you suggestions on how you can get the money



We are agreeing


yeah

but part of me does still think $ is a factor lol

I guess I was trying to be PC


Edited by SamoneLenior - May 13 2014 at 1:29pm
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..is that called trickin' on girls?

not every guy does it so readily. some only do it with someone they are seriously dating. some do it from day 1. the day one men---are into buying affection to a degree.
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Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

..is that called trickin' on girls?

not every guy does it so readily. some only do it with someone they are seriously dating. some do it from day 1. the day one men---are into buying affection to a degree.


or they don't view money that way.
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Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

..is that called trickin' on girls?

not every guy does it so readily. some only do it with someone they are seriously dating. some do it from day 1. the day one men---are into buying affection to a degree.


or they don't view money that way.

yes that too......some people view money like wi-fi--meant to be shared
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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


pooling all the money Ermm

This reminds me of that Martin episode where Martin & Gina pool their money
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money will always be a factor and no one likes to feel as tho someones taking advantage of them.

OPs reluctance in asking makes me think they havent been dating long enough to ask for it and/or its a large amount.

Just because someone has the money to give doesn't mean side eyes should be activated if they choose not to give their money to you..call em selfish but cant call em broke.

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my moneys your money ..except when theres a shoe release you come second on those days 
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Originally posted by FarrahTheLibra FarrahTheLibra wrote:

Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

Originally posted by FarrahTheLibra FarrahTheLibra wrote:

A couple things to add:

-It's a new relationship

-I NEED the money; I know he has it

-Just don't want him to think I'm a gold digger Dead
 
 
oh.  does he know that you NEED the money?????????????????????????????????????

I haven't said it in those exact words. I hate to complain. I've tried (subtly) hinting at it.

Just ask....a closed mouth won't get fed. If you two are dating, married, together period just ask him. Your either going to get a yes or a no...then you'll know what to do from that point forward. Get it another way, then don't depend or ask him for anything else. I believe that your s.o should always be there to help you out no matter what.

My opinion.
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Originally posted by FarrahTheLibra FarrahTheLibra wrote:

Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

Originally posted by FarrahTheLibra FarrahTheLibra wrote:

A couple things to add:

-It's a new relationship

-I NEED the money; I know he has it

-Just don't want him to think I'm a gold digger Dead
 
 
oh.  does he know that you NEED the money?????????????????????????????????????

I haven't said it in those exact words. I hate to complain. I've tried (subtly) hinting at it.
 
huh?  does he ask you how your day went?  just tell him what is going on.  that's not complaining.
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Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

can she just WANT it though?
 
yes.  if he doesn't WANT to give it.  then they may have a prollemmm....lol
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