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Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Originally posted by FarrahTheLibra FarrahTheLibra wrote:

A couple things to add:

-It's a new relationship

-I NEED the money; I know he has it

-Just don't want him to think I'm a gold digger Dead



How new is the relationship and about how much you need? Is it for something ya need or something ya want?



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Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

Define s.o..

Cozi know some of you may think a dude of two weeks is an s.o

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I dont think its always a money management issue.
If he has it and wants to pay for it whats the problem?
 
I think it matters how long you've been together though.
But when you're together and its comfortable who cares...
 
Plus some men like helping their women out financially doesnt matter if the women NEEDS it.
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Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

I dont think its always a money management issue.
If he has it and wants to pay for it whats the problem?
 

I think it matters how long you've been together though.

But when you're together and its comfortable who cares...

 

Plus some men like helping their women out financially doesnt matter if the women NEEDS it.

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can she just WANT it though?
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..is that called trickin' on girls?

not every guy does it so readily. some only do it with someone they are seriously dating. some do it from day 1. the day one men---are into buying affection to a degree.
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Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

..is that called trickin' on girls?

not every guy does it so readily. some only do it with someone they are seriously dating. some do it from day 1. the day one men---are into buying affection to a degree.


or they don't view money that way.
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Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

..is that called trickin' on girls?

not every guy does it so readily. some only do it with someone they are seriously dating. some do it from day 1. the day one men---are into buying affection to a degree.


or they don't view money that way.

yes that too......some people view money like wi-fi--meant to be shared
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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


pooling all the money Ermm

This reminds me of that Martin episode where Martin & Gina pool their money
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money will always be a factor and no one likes to feel as tho someones taking advantage of them.

OPs reluctance in asking makes me think they havent been dating long enough to ask for it and/or its a large amount.

Just because someone has the money to give doesn't mean side eyes should be activated if they choose not to give their money to you..call em selfish but cant call em broke.

Edited by Gkisses - May 13 2014 at 1:24pm
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