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meh

I don't think you can't be a "power couple" if can't hold your own

hold your own can be different things, not only money


OP if he knows you are struggling with something he should offer without being asked

at least offer you suggestions on how you can get the money


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I have been fortunate I guess, they always give.
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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:



meh

I don't think you can't be a "power couple" if can't hold your own

hold your own can be different things, not only money



OP if knows you are struggling with something he should offer without being asked

at least offer you suggestions on how you can get the money



We are agreeing
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Farra, I just don't like hinting around with things lol. I'd be direct.
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Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Originally posted by FarrahTheLibra FarrahTheLibra wrote:

A couple things to add:

-It's a new relationship

-I NEED the money; I know he has it

-Just don't want him to think I'm a gold digger Dead



How new is the relationship and about how much you need? Is it for something ya need or something ya want?



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That's nuts!

Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:


I dont do loans or give money for bills to SO's so i dont expect it in return.


I know couples who do loans.

marrieds.



I dont understand this..lol this is why id only get with someone who is financially responsible. Loaning your wife/husband money seems oxymoronic.
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Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

Define s.o..

Cozi know some of you may think a dude of two weeks is an s.o

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I dont think its always a money management issue.
If he has it and wants to pay for it whats the problem?
 
I think it matters how long you've been together though.
But when you're together and its comfortable who cares...
 
Plus some men like helping their women out financially doesnt matter if the women NEEDS it.
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Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

I dont think its always a money management issue.
If he has it and wants to pay for it whats the problem?
 

I think it matters how long you've been together though.

But when you're together and its comfortable who cares...

 

Plus some men like helping their women out financially doesnt matter if the women NEEDS it.

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can she just WANT it though?
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