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Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

yeah purp...my granny tried to warn me...but i was like no mam...imma pay my OWN way.  which is funny/ironic now looking back because even in hs my bf (ex hubby) was giving me bus fare and paying for my lunch every damn day lmaoooooo....but still in my head i would be like but one day imma make my OWN money!!!!  anyway i quickly found out just how overrated that shyt is...


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Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:


eta: I don't think a ring is important to the marriage but it's important to me to have a pretty one.

 
yep.  i'll take a fabulous ring and skip the marriage....lmaooooo
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Ive always wanted to be in a power couple whenvit came to marriage. Not really pulling my own weight but giving my spouse the assurance that we were both in it together completely. Watching my folks evolve from young newlyweds to an older married couple taught me a lot.




But enough bout that Op comeback and answer these lingering questions
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Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

Originally posted by FarrahTheLibra FarrahTheLibra wrote:

A couple things to add:

-It's a new relationship

-I NEED the money; I know he has it

-Just don't want him to think I'm a gold digger Dead
 
 
oh.  does he know that you NEED the money?????????????????????????????????????

I haven't said it in those exact words. I hate to complain. I've tried (subtly) hinting at it.
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do you want to pay him back or naaah?
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Originally posted by FarrahTheLibra FarrahTheLibra wrote:

 

I haven't said it in those exact words. I hate to complain. I've tried (subtly) hinting at it.


I would not do this.
 
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Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

do you want to pay him back or naaah?

The latter. I don't have the resources right now. 

Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

Originally posted by FarrahTheLibra FarrahTheLibra wrote:

 

I haven't said it in those exact words. I hate to complain. I've tried (subtly) hinting at it.


I would not do this.
 

Why?
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I have been fortunate I guess, they always give.
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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:



meh

I don't think you can't be a "power couple" if can't hold your own

hold your own can be different things, not only money



OP if knows you are struggling with something he should offer without being asked

at least offer you suggestions on how you can get the money



We are agreeing
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Farra, I just don't like hinting around with things lol. I'd be direct.
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