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Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:


I dont do loans or give money for bills to SO's so i dont expect it in return.


I know couples who do loans.

marrieds.



I dont understand this..lol this is why id only get with someone who is financially responsible. Loaning your wife/husband money seems oxymoronic.
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Originally posted by FarrahTheLibra FarrahTheLibra wrote:

A couple things to add:

-It's a new relationship

-I NEED the money; I know he has it

-Just don't want him to think I'm a gold digger Dead
 
 
oh.  does he know that you NEED the money?????????????????????????????????????
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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


I have seen the loan thing when it comes to cars

one spouse may buy the car cash and the other pays them back, no interest



I have never understood borrowing money from your spouse. like why aren't "we" buying a car? but you know different marriages for different folks.
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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


I have seen the loan thing when it comes to cars

one spouse may buy the car cash and the other pays them back, no interest




you're talking large lump sum loans? (that's still odd to me)

I'm talking about $20 til I get my check next week /Angie stone
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Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


I have seen the loan thing when it comes to cars

one spouse may buy the car cash and the other pays them back, no interest



I have never understood borrowing money from your spouse. like why aren't "we" buying a car? but you know different marriages for different folks.
 
yes this would never work for me.  if its like that...you stay over there sir.  and i'll stay over here.  we can meet in the middle when i wanna f*ck...
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Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:



yes this would never work for me.  if its like that...you stay over there sir.  and i'll stay over here.  we can meet in the middle when i wanna f*ck...


I love  it when you say this.
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Yall keep bills seperate when married?...lol this seems ti make things more complicated. Sounding more like a live in fwb.

Personally I'd go to my parents before I went to someone I was dating if i were in desperate need of cash.
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Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


I have seen the loan thing when it comes to cars

one spouse may buy the car cash and the other pays them back, no interest




you're talking large lump sum loans? (that's still odd to me)

I'm talking about $20 til I get my check next week /Angie stone
 
lmaooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo  no no and no.  wtf.  $20????  they need to go kill themselves....
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Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:



I love  it when you say this.
LOL
 
 
LOL  i'm so seeeerous tho...LOL
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lol. That was just an example. But it's not $40K .

why is my spouse loaning me $40K to buy a car anyway? lol
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