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Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

Define s.o..

Cozi know some of you may think a dude of two weeks is an s.o


two weeks?
should be married to him by then.
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Originally posted by Bribby Bribby wrote:

Did yall see what happened on Love & Hip Hop last night with Erica and her boo?


no, what happened?
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Never put much thought into this.

Either tell him to leave his card with me or tell him to put a certain amount in my account. Why would he ask why?

Even with friends or family members I don't even ask why.
That's tacky.

Or if it's a service I need just tell him like my car needs new tires go do that for me.


It's not a formal proposal.




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Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:


I dont do loans or give money for bills to SO's so i dont expect it in return.


I know couples who do loans.

marrieds.
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A couple things to add:

-It's a new relationship

-I NEED the money; I know he has it

-Just don't want him to think I'm a gold digger Dead
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What if you're married and your partner takes money to cover his bill leaving u hard up, would u expect him to pay pack? Example, he withdraws money to cover his car payment leaving $100 in your account knowing very well u have bills coming up too?
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Gkisses Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 13 2014 at 12:03pm
Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:


I dont do loans or give money for bills to SO's so i dont expect it in return.


I know couples who do loans.

marrieds.



I dont understand this..lol this is why id only get with someone who is financially responsible. Loaning your wife/husband money seems oxymoronic.
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why does he not already know you need the money?

if I was in a bind I'm sure I would have already discussed it with my so

are you hiding your situation from him?


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I have seen the loan thing when it comes to cars

one spouse may buy the car cash and the other pays them back, no interest


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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote ThoughtCouture Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 13 2014 at 12:08pm
Originally posted by FarrahTheLibra FarrahTheLibra wrote:

A couple things to add:

-It's a new relationship

-I NEED the money; I know he has it

-Just don't want him to think I'm a gold digger Dead
 
 
oh.  does he know that you NEED the money?????????????????????????????????????
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