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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote sugabanana Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 13 2014 at 11:38am
Umm Mr. Suga your card will be used for a few purchases. No need to ask. Plus I do laundry and money is always in the pockets.
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if you have to ask he's slipping
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If youre married and going through something financially isnt that a couple issue tho so im not sure how the other wouldn't know unless things are being hidden.

If yall not married then one needs to do better when it comes to getting their money in order, but this is why i don't play house when it comes to money.

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Originally posted by herwoman herwoman wrote:

Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


I can't see myself having to be like honey I'm getting xyz so look out for that purchase or vice versa

my husband isn't bad with money but I just can't see us having to let each other know when we make certain purchases

we poll some money for other reasons, but after we save and pay our bills that money right there is mine to do what I want with it

dare you to check me or question me

I'm a tad more submissive than this lol sometimes I need to be checked about my purchases.

LOL  I do too & it's all combined anyway....but  I am sure he'll be side eyeing these shoe purchases.

*yawn*

I needed them for spring/summerStern Smile Am I to wear the same shoes? boys just don't get itSleepy
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Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

Define s.o..

Cozi know some of you may think a dude of two weeks is an s.o


two weeks?
should be married to him by then.
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Originally posted by Bribby Bribby wrote:

Did yall see what happened on Love & Hip Hop last night with Erica and her boo?


no, what happened?
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Never put much thought into this.

Either tell him to leave his card with me or tell him to put a certain amount in my account. Why would he ask why?

Even with friends or family members I don't even ask why.
That's tacky.

Or if it's a service I need just tell him like my car needs new tires go do that for me.


It's not a formal proposal.




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Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:


I dont do loans or give money for bills to SO's so i dont expect it in return.


I know couples who do loans.

marrieds.
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A couple things to add:

-It's a new relationship

-I NEED the money; I know he has it

-Just don't want him to think I'm a gold digger Dead
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What if you're married and your partner takes money to cover his bill leaving u hard up, would u expect him to pay pack? Example, he withdraws money to cover his car payment leaving $100 in your account knowing very well u have bills coming up too?
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