Asking Your S.O. First...

nitabug wrote: Never operated like that engaged or otherwise. If I said some sh*t like that, I didn't want to go in the first place.

yes this is the only time I will say "I have to ask..." If he's in the room, he already knows that's code for we don't want to go  and he plays the bad guy and says no. I love that man. He does the same with me if it's some of his people (he'll say: I have to ask my wife, so I can turn them down)


Edited by PurpleHaze - Jan 11 2013 at 9:14pm

PurpleHaze wrote: nitabug wrote: Never operated like that engaged or otherwise. If I said some sh*t like that, I didn't want to go in the first place. yes this is the only time I will say "I have to ask..." If he's in the room, he already knows that's code for we don't want to go  and he plays the bad guy and says no. I love that man. He does the same with me if it's some of his people (he'll say: I have to ask my wife, so I can turn them down)

LOL. That's how me and the last person I was engaged to operated. Somebody would ask for something and I'd say, "Now you know he has my keys, you have to ask him" Or "Idk, I'd have to ask him and see what we were doing."

We'd crack the hell up. Because as soon as they walked to him, he'd say no before they even asked. LMAO. He was such an asshole and I loved it.

I remember one time my 'friends' had a mini intervention and said he was controlling me. Funniest sh*t ever. & his friends did the same thing to him.

and dead at the intervention. I'm sure people who arent' really close to us think we need one too. Coworkers used to ask how I could be married to someone who was so mean. We're pretty evenly matched tho, but I think he's a tad bit nicer than me.

eta: he's much more blunt with his tho. I have tact


Edited by PurpleHaze - Jan 11 2013 at 9:36pm

LOL

interesting question, I had to think about it