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Originally posted by PurpleHaze PurpleHaze wrote:

I don't but I don't see anything wrong with someone doing it.
when I'm a married/engaged woman it means that two are becoming one. Any move I make I will consult him and he needs to do the same with me. I believe its respectful. 
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Originally posted by el_bandido el_bandido wrote:

I do it out of respect 

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Originally posted by bg bg wrote:

Yes

i don't make plans without consulting him first




Me too.
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If its something that might make him uncomfortable, sure.
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Originally posted by bebe88 bebe88 wrote:

I don't ask his permission, I just let him know what I'm going to do out of courtesy/ respect.
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We usually consult each other, no biggie.

buttermmm this past Thanksgiving he wasnt around and a bunch of us ladies did the Black Friday thing at Walmart nearly the whole night on Thursday. So the next day im telling him what I got on sale, how it was crazy, people fighting etc...he tells me im "forbidden" to do Black Friday again..."forbidden"?!!! Stern Smile who is you issuing decrees like you are the law, not even my daddy could forbid me Pinch
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Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

my ls almost went to one of those w/her church.....we judged her lol and told her that was stupid
LOL Yeah those church workshop about being single are pointless! LOL
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Never operated like that engaged or otherwise.

If I said some sh*t like that, I didn't want to go in the first place.
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Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

my ls almost went to one of those w/her church.....we judged her lol and told her that was stupid

My aunt went to a singles bible study and found her husband. It worked for them.
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Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

i think its just respectful

your s.o is somewhat responsible for you to a degree

but in most situations i dont think the intent is to ask per se but more so to inform i think

just common courtesy

but its a fine line


I concur!
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