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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (5) Thanks(5)   Quote Midwest_Da_Gawd Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 11 2013 at 4:33pm
Originally posted by blaquefoxx blaquefoxx wrote:

Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

Originally posted by blaquefoxx blaquefoxx wrote:

Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

were these women black?
Yup...

were they single?
Well I remembered one of them invited me to this workshop on being comfortable with being single awhile back. Later down the line when she found out I was engaged she was like Shocked I didn't know I was obligated to tell her smh...

The other 2 chicks, I'm not sure about though.


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Exactly.
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what?  a workshop?  lmaooooooooooooooo
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote goodm3 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 11 2013 at 4:41pm
Originally posted by blaquefoxx blaquefoxx wrote:

Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

Originally posted by blaquefoxx blaquefoxx wrote:

Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

were these women black?
Yup...

were they single?
Well I remembered one of them invited me to this workshop on being comfortable with being single awhile back. Later down the line when she found out I was engaged she was like Shocked I didn't know I was obligated to tell her smh...

The other 2 chicks, I'm not sure about though.


Details please! LOL
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote blaquefoxx Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 11 2013 at 4:53pm
Oh stahp itLOL

I politely declined when I was invited to go to that ..erm meeting. I forgot the excuse I gave her...but I didn't wanna make her feel bad by saying I was already tooken (lol) and can' t relate.
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There are workshops for being single? If you need a workshop, ya doing it wrong.LOL
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote EPITOME Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 11 2013 at 4:59pm
my ls almost went to one of those w/her church.....we judged her lol and told her that was stupid
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Well, here's my personal experience on this (this may not be same issue for other ladies/gentlemen here).:
 
For many many years, I made it a habit/routine to consult with my hubby first before making a decision.  Because of my habit/routine, he had grown a habit/routine for me to include him in all of my decisions...even the decisions that I don't believe requires his opinions.  It was my fault because I had spoiled him to feel this way.
 
Now and for the future:  When it comes down to male companionships (including co-workers or etc.), i will make the decisions on whether i'm going to hangout with this individual.  I will provide this information to my husband for only information purposes and would not include him in my decision making unless i really need his opinion on it.  The same goes for him.  
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Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:

There are workshops for being single? If you need a workshop, ya doing it wrong.LOL


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Didn't read the thread but I give notice I'm going somewhere on a certain date out of respect and courtesy. If he has an issue with it, he'll let me know and we discuss.
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