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melikey 
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 Posted: Jan 11 2013 at 3:55pm |
3 reasons, -i might be forgetting another engagement - i might be ruining a surprise -i don't want to go and plan to say that hubby reminded me of some other commitment 
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Posted: Jan 11 2013 at 3:58pm |
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I tell my husband where I'm going and what I'm doing...... |
some women don't understand that?
he does the same but I will say he is terrible with the "hey so and so called and wants to come over or wants to go here" like 1 hour before it happens
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same here
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Posted: Jan 11 2013 at 4:00pm |
freedom76 wrote:
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Child please...all those women looking at you crazy either don't have a man or their men are so hen pecked they wouldn't care what their women did...
I look at realtionships like this...you and your man's opinion are all that matters. Who cares what others think if you both are happy.
And I check in with my man and he checks in with me |
Hmmmmm....I don't always consult hubby before planning something that just involves me. If i know we aren't doing anything, I will let him know soon after I make the decision. Like my girlfriend wants me to meet her newest boyfriend tomorrow morning at breakfast. I told her sure!. Then I called him and let him know. meh... |
you've made my point for me. You may have made the plan but you damn sure weren't gonna go without letting him know. And you wanna know why? Because you understand that that is what should be done to maintain an harmonious relationship. Nothing wrong with that at all.
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Posted: Jan 11 2013 at 4:01pm |
Sometimes i ask, sometimes i tell. even little simple thing slike if i decide to go to the mall after work i sent him a quick text. he may say you dont need anything and then i think about it and bring my ass home. 
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Posted: Jan 11 2013 at 4:06pm |
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I always check with him or at least let him know, he does the same.
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Posted: Jan 11 2013 at 4:07pm |
Jewelsnyc wrote:
freedom76 wrote:
Jewelsnyc wrote:
Child please...all those women looking at you crazy either don't have a man or their men are so hen pecked they wouldn't care what their women did...
I look at realtionships like this...you and your man's opinion are all that matters. Who cares what others think if you both are happy.
And I check in with my man and he checks in with me |
Hmmmmm....I don't always consult hubby before planning something that just involves me. If i know we aren't doing anything, I will let him know soon after I make the decision. Like my girlfriend wants me to meet her newest boyfriend tomorrow morning at breakfast. I told her sure!. Then I called him and let him know. meh... |
you've made my point for me. You may have made the plan but you damn sure weren't gonna go without letting him know. And you wanna know why? Because you understand that that is what should be done to maintain an harmonious relationship. Nothing wrong with that at all. |
I think what is confusing me is the OP was invited to something that didn't SEEM to involve her SO. If it doesn't involve hubby, I doubt seriously I would call him beforehand to see what he thought about me attending. But yeah...right after I will let him know.
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Posted: Jan 11 2013 at 4:08pm |
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I did call him once from I-95 to say "I'm on my way to Raleigh."
eta: I decided to go at last minute and he was at the office.
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Mine was, Hey papi i'm on the way to Vegas... this was before kids tho.. good times good times
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Posted: Jan 11 2013 at 4:10pm |
Princess_S wrote:
Sometimes i ask, sometimes i tell. even little simple thing slike if i decide to go to the mall after work i sent him a quick text. he may say you dont need anything and then i think about it and bring my ass home. |
never call before boo, never. always after like, hey babe just leaving the mall.
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Posted: Jan 11 2013 at 4:11pm |
Rumbera wrote:
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I did call him once from I-95 to say "I'm on my way to Raleigh."
eta: I decided to go at last minute and he was at the office.
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Mine was, Hey papi i'm on the way to Vegas... this was before kids tho.. good times good times |
yes. And if he's like my hub, he didn't even flinch. Just said "ok, have fun."
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Posted: Jan 11 2013 at 4:12pm |
Rumbera wrote:
Princess_S wrote:
Sometimes i ask, sometimes i tell. even little simple thing slike if i decide to go to the mall after work i sent him a quick text. he may say you dont need anything and then i think about it and bring my ass home. |
never call before boo, never. always after like, hey babe just leaving the mall. |
Yup...it is better to apologize then ask permission.
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