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 Posted: Jan 11 2013 at 3:14pm |
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Even if im going to the store and he's not home I tell him but asking for permisson FOH
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PurpleHaze
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Posted: Jan 11 2013 at 3:15pm |
 freedom76 wrote:
I was invited to a dining event, and before I said yes or no, I asked him if he wanted to go. Is this what you mean? |
You mean I should be doing this? 
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Posted: Jan 11 2013 at 3:15pm |
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well...if we live together, of course, i will let him know if i will be stepping out. but it's not like he would be able to prevent me from going for no good reason.
if we don't live together...maybe... |
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Well we're engaged and do live together, so I don't see the big fuss about asking imo.
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Posted: Jan 11 2013 at 3:16pm |
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imagine getting that call from the kin after (god forbid) something has happened like 'nicca WHERE WAS YOU??????!!!' |
yes, I think people forget about that or don't give a damn
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Posted: Jan 11 2013 at 3:16pm |
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I did call him once from I-95 to say "I'm on my way to Raleigh."
eta: I decided to go at last minute and he was at the office.
Edited by PurpleHaze - Jan 11 2013 at 3:17pm
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ThoughtCouture
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Posted: Jan 11 2013 at 3:24pm |
blaquefoxx wrote:
ThoughtCouture wrote:
well...if we live together, of course, i will let him know if i will be stepping out. but it's not like he would be able to prevent me from going for no good reason.
if we don't live together...maybe... |
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Well we're engaged and do live together, so I don't see the big fuss about asking imo.
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it's no big deal, imo either.
but ummmm...has he ever said no? 
Edited by ThoughtCouture - Jan 11 2013 at 3:25pm
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Posted: Jan 11 2013 at 3:27pm |
I'm not asking..............but I will respectfully let him know where I will be going.
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Posted: Jan 11 2013 at 3:30pm |
ThoughtCouture wrote:
blaquefoxx wrote:
ThoughtCouture wrote:
well...if we live together, of course, i will let him know if i will be stepping out. but it's not like he would be able to prevent me from going for no good reason.
if we don't live together...maybe... |
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Well we're engaged and do live together, so I don't see the big fuss about asking imo.
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it's no big deal, imo either.
but ummmm...has he ever said no? |
Well regarding the issue in the OP, he was cool with it. He was like "we ain't staying too long though" lol.
He doesn't like people too much...just like me
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Posted: Jan 11 2013 at 3:30pm |
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ahhhh ok!
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Posted: Jan 11 2013 at 3:42pm |
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My husband and I consult each other for pretty much anything outside the norm of what we do. It's not about permission, it's about courtesy. If we want to invite someone over, we ask each other "Would you mind?". Same thing for going out. It's just acknowledging that our first priority is to our family and we want to make sure our family is alright and on board with what is going on. I respect him and he respects me. We rarely take issue with what the other person wants to do but we still ask. If he were to not want me to do something, I would respect what he had to say and likely wouldn't do it. Same for him. Our respect for each other voluntarily supersedes our "right" to do our own thing.
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