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Originally posted by femmefatale85 femmefatale85 wrote:

I don't...I've asked mutual friends. It's an inappropriate question to ask someone in most cases, so I wouldn't want to offend anyone gay or straight.


This...

Not sure if you're asking because you're romantically interested or just being nosy. But:

1. It's not your business

2. Nothing makes a straight man madder than his sexuality being questioned.

3. If you were romantically interested, now you've made things awkward. You've basically called him a milk toast.
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i just ask. straight forward. no sugar.
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I'm honestly confused as to why you would need to know
Nor can I figure out what makes you think someone who is in the closet will confess to you
And if you already think you know because he's "flamboyant" why ask something you already concluded you know the answer to

I'm just baffled
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote Lady ICE Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 05 2013 at 11:04pm
lol. weird thing... ppl always confess things to me, i dont know why. but mostly its my curiosity. if i wanna know i'll ask...if i dont it will bug me to death..(not just this situation but all things im curious about) sometimes i just like confirmation for what im already thinking. no ones ever been offended..and eventually they come around and ask me crazy questions.. i dont mind

but that might just be me..just the way i am i guess.

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I don't think you should ask cuz if he wanted you to know, he'd tell you.

I also don't agree with discussing it with other people you know in common behind his back. I hate when I find out someone asked one of my friends something about me. The fact that you had to go to an outside source is a clear indicator it ain't your business.
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Originally posted by SoutherNtellect SoutherNtellect wrote:

I'm honestly confused as to why you would need to know could be interested in him, or want to play match maker for sister?
Nor can I figure out what makes you think someone who is in the closet will confess to you
And if you already think you know because he's "flamboyant" why ask something you already concluded you know the answer to

I'm just baffled
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Originally posted by KhadiNiaomi KhadiNiaomi wrote:

Yeah yall are right, but a person who's in the closet probably wouldnt come out like that anyways. Maybe thats why I asked.


wait you already asked him? What was his response?
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Originally posted by KhadiNiaomi KhadiNiaomi wrote:

Yeah yall are right, but a person who's in the closet probably wouldnt come out like that anyways. Maybe thats why I asked.


Indulge me what makes you think he is gay?
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Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

Originally posted by KhadiNiaomi KhadiNiaomi wrote:

Yeah yall are right, but a person who's in the closet probably wouldnt come out like that anyways. Maybe thats why I asked.


Indulge me what makes you think he is gay?


hmmm does he speak in complete/proper sentences? Does he have a job?


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Originally posted by SoutherNtellect SoutherNtellect wrote:

I'm honestly confused as to why you would need to know
I'm just baffled

DUH!! She doesnt want to do it with him if he's GAY!!!
I agree that no man will EVER tell a woman the truth about this though. so you'd have to be creative.... maybe set him up with a dude and see what happens if you really want to know. 
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