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And at 31, your best bet is to find someone who's also a virgin.

Being 100% honest here. The older you get as a woman, the less likely you're going to be to want to date a man who's your age and never been with anyone physically.

I mean, I don't know...maybe you have the game on lock in all other extracurriculars except actual penetration, but realistically, that'll scare most non virgins away over the age of 25.
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And it's 82....

don't age me Joe!
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Originally posted by modelbusiness82 modelbusiness82 wrote:

And it's 82....

don't age me Joe!
oh 81 is my birth year so I just mixed it up
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Originally posted by Joseph_Sun Joseph_Sun wrote:

how does  a 31 year old, virgin, invalid, such as myself enter the dating scene and what type of realistic expectations should I give myself?







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And since you called my name...

1. Stop asking for phone convos online from people you will probably NEVER in life meet.

Join a meetup group (or something like it) for hobbies you like in your own community where you'll actually have to meet people IN REAL LIFE.

You're never going to get over your social skill issues if you don't talk to people in real life. And let's be real, you troll so much on here, I have a hard time believing you're getting quality serious convos out of the ladies on here. You need to interact with people who don't have a running tally in their heads of "wtf" posts that you've created. They're coming into the convo with a bias against you already. That's not doing you any favors.

2. Do you even know what you want?

You can't go looking for something if you don't know what it is, so you need to make a list. Keep the list VERY simple. 10 must haves, 10 deal breakers. No more than that. Then organize that list with most important being at the top of each half. Then cut that list in half again and that's what you're looking for in a mate.

3. Let your guard down.

From how you come across online, you're very guarded & looking for the burn because you've been burned in the past by people in general. But that comes across as an insane amount of ba ge. And no one in their right mind wants to necessarily put themselves through paces like that. So, you're going to have to "let go and let God" on things you're hanging on to from the past. 


Now if you want anything past what I've already posted...I'mma have to start charging you. :)
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Originally posted by modelbusiness82 modelbusiness82 wrote:

And since you called my name...

1. Stop asking for phone convos online from people you will probably NEVER in life meet.

Join a meetup group (or something like it) for hobbies you like in your own community where you'll actually have to meet people IN REAL LIFE.

You're never going to get over your social skill issues if you don't talk to people in real life. And let's be real, you troll so much on here, I have a hard time believing you're getting quality serious convos out of the ladies on here. You need to interact with people who don't have a running tally in their heads of "wtf" posts that you've created. They're coming into the convo with a bias against you already. That's not doing you any favors.

2. Do you even know what you want?

You can't go looking for something if you don't know what it is, so you need to make a list. Keep the list VERY simple. 10 must haves, 10 deal breakers. No more than that. Then organize that list with most important being at the top of each half. Then cut that list in half again and that's what you're looking for in a mate.

3. Let your guard down.

From how you come across online, you're very guarded & looking for the burn because you've been burned in the past by people in general. But that comes across as an insane amount of ba ge. And no one in their right mind wants to necessarily put themselves through paces like that. So, you're going to have to "let go and let God" on things you're hanging on to from the past. 


Now if you want anything past what I've already posted...I'mma have to start charging you. :)
well thank you even more. hopefully I can incorporate this advice in my life
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you're on a site with thousands of women

you've wasted your time trollin' when you could've been mackin'
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Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:

you're on a site with thousands of women

you've wasted your time trollin' when you could've been mackin'
 
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I wish the OP Joseph_Sun would just go away.
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Originally posted by danni7 danni7 wrote:

I wish the OP Joseph_Sun would just go away.


LMBAO!!!!!! CryCryCryLOLLOLLOL

Please just evaporate already!
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