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 Posted: Jan 14 2013 at 8:38pm |
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Whatever happened to d!ck control? |
Like I said, it's all about financial liability and stigma. Not really about sexual responsibility and health.
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Posted: Jan 14 2013 at 8:40pm |
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There's a whole bunch of other people I'd like to put on birth control as well. But people would accuse me of eugenics if I named all the groups.
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Man, I have a sterilization list, I don't think BHM would agree either. But some people really should be sterilized. Seriously.
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Posted: Jan 14 2013 at 8:41pm |
I think for teens who do become pregnant they need to find a balance between learning how to take care of their child and focusing on school rather than expecting someone to baby them or pity them because they had a child especially if an adult can manage caring for a child and working.
Some teens don't realize that they can't do some of the things they want to anymore or atleast not as much as they once used to. Either that or they expect their parent to take care of the child while they continue to live life the way they did before having kids. Then again there are adults who think that way as well after having kids.
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Posted: Jan 14 2013 at 8:47pm |
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Then again there are adults who think that way as well after having kids. |
This is my point. Teen parenting numbers are going down. I am seeing a trend in adults having kids and being terrible parents that don't know what to do. They are worse than the teen parents who are given classes and have adults living with them to teach. They wear the fact they "waited" as a badge of honor, but they don't know anything and their infants are in harms way because of it.
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Posted: Jan 14 2013 at 8:48pm |
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But to me, it's an american/1st word thing, because in other cultures that I witness, parenting is taught at a young age.
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Posted: Jan 14 2013 at 8:50pm |
nitabug wrote:
Brownsugar1 wrote:
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I guess she doesnt want or care to talk to them about sex
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That's what I am thinking. It's all financial/stigma. She said she doesn't want to take care of any kids. lol. & that is pretty much what it boils down to...not wanting the financial liability.
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She seems to really love her daughters and all but I don't think she wants to raise another child.
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Posted: Jan 14 2013 at 8:51pm |
I'm extremely biased in this area because of my job.  Birth control for everyone. Always.  The fact that almost half of pregnancies are unintended scares the hell out of me. Future little Jas will know the deal. I can't tell you what I'll do when it comes to birth control, but she'll be tired of hearing about it. So will any male children. I joke about handing out condoms at parties. I'm friends with someone how actually did this in college. She'd hand them a condom and say "don't forget to pinch the tip."  Teen pregnancy is no joke. It almost always makes things MUCH harder and a lot of kids just can't keep up with the demands. Just like adults, but adults often have more resources at their disposal: cognitive, emotional, and financial.
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Posted: Jan 14 2013 at 8:52pm |
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I'm 18 and all I know is I'm not ready or in anyway financial equip to raise a child. Plus the guys my age would be terrible fathers at my age aswell.
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Posted: Jan 14 2013 at 8:53pm |
nitabug wrote:
maysay1 wrote:
There's a whole bunch of other people I'd like to put on birth control as well. But people would accuse me of eugenics if I named all the groups.
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Man, I have a sterilization list, I don't think BHM would agree either. But some people really should be sterilized. Seriously.
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you and maysay would be on someone's list
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Posted: Jan 14 2013 at 8:54pm |
JasmineE02 wrote:
Just like adults, but adults often have more resources at their disposal: cognitive, emotional, and financial.
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I disagree.
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