Black Hair Media Forum Homepage
BHM BHM BHM
Summer Hair Takeover Specials
Forum Home Forum Home > Lets Talk > Talk, Talk, and More Talk
  New Posts New Posts RSS Feed - Are you one of those people...
  FAQ FAQ  Forum Search   Register Register  Login Login
 

Are you one of those people...

 
 Post Reply Post Reply Page  <1 456




The Best Human Hair Available with No Service Match

Author
 Rating: Topic Rating: 8 Votes, Average 3.00  Topic Search Topic Search  Topic Options Topic Options
honeyb87 View Drop Down
Platinum Member
Platinum Member
Avatar

Joined: Sep 10 2006
Location: Hotlanta
Status: Offline
Points: 40758
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote honeyb87 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 25 2013 at 6:02pm
Depending on the person I'm talking to, passive aggressiveness is a tactic that I use toward certain people to make them feel stupid. Usually they are like why isn't she yelling/neck rolling/cussing at me? Also, I hate to bring race into this, but as black women dealing with white people- blunt and straight forward = being aggressive and angry. Its a very thin line.

But in general, when getting your point across, you can't be too passive or smiley - people won't take your request seriously. Then again, don't be too aggressive/sarcastic. And watch for body language, as it speaks louder than words.

Be an adult, speak your mind, be classy and respectful. 
Back to Top
Sponsored Links


Back to Top
melikey View Drop Down
Elite Member
Elite Member
Avatar

Joined: Oct 03 2006
Location: venus
Status: Offline
Points: 96986
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote melikey Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 25 2013 at 6:35pm
no. 
when people try to act tough towards me i giggle though. 
Back to Top
Ladybird0724 View Drop Down
Elite Member
Elite Member
Avatar

Joined: Aug 23 2011
Status: Offline
Points: 59888
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Ladybird0724 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 25 2013 at 6:48pm
offline, i'm extremely blunt. it's a Sag thing, I guess. but if i know that being PA pisses you off, I'll use it and not feel bad about it.

on the flip side, if ppl are being PA to me, I usually call them out on their bs.


Back to Top
bebe88 View Drop Down
Elite Member
Elite Member
Avatar

Joined: Feb 24 2010
Location: Right Behind U
Status: Offline
Points: 18514
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote bebe88 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 25 2013 at 8:50pm
I think so.


I always tell people about themselves...but I laugh/joke while doing it.....they always assume I'm joking but I be dead azz
Back to Top
Get Longer Healthier Faster Growing Hair
Get Healthier Stronger Longer Hair
The Elite Hair Care Sorority
Electric Cherry Hair
Hair Extensions Wefted Hair Wigs and More
Human Hair Wigs
Wefting Training
FAB Hair Premium Hair Extensions
DivaWigs.com
Premium Quality Human Hair Extensions and Closures
 Post Reply Post Reply Page  <1 456
  Share Topic   

Forum Jump Forum Permissions View Drop Down