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No cuz she's one of those people LOL

She can't handle confrontation (which is why she sugarcoats her opinion with laughter lol)

Originally posted by newdiva1 newdiva1 wrote:

yeah I know folks like this.  alot of them simply don't want confrontation.  It gets on your nerves but have u cussed her out when she says what she says and laughs it off?
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I do this sometimes. But the people at the receiving end prefer this to me being blunt, hurtful and mean. But for me, I tend to do this when you have offended me in the past and now the opportunity for you to eat your words has come. The passive aggressive thing helps me make a point without hurting someone's feelings because I RARELY apologize because if I said it, I meant it......hurt feelings out not.
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That is weird

I can't picture you doing that lol

Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

hmm when im mad i cant keep a straight face...it's weird. i smile and grin. so im yelling at you while grinning. it's disconcerting as fvck for the other person bc my face and voice are not matching up. weird.
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Why's it matter if she says it passive aggressively instead of active aggressively. Don't let her get away with it since it annoys you. No, I'm not one of those people and when I say I'm kidding I truly am.
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Originally posted by Alias_Avi Alias_Avi wrote:

No cuz she's one of those people LOL

She can't handle confrontation (which is why she sugarcoats her opinion with laughter lol)

Originally posted by newdiva1 newdiva1 wrote:

yeah I know folks like this.  alot of them simply don't want confrontation.  It gets on your nerves but have u cussed her out when she says what she says and laughs it off?
 
 
 
 
 
welp there u go.  we all know if someone tells us about ourselves and they don't laugh...we will most likely get mad and cuss and possibly slap up.  don't matter if they are right.  to laugh it off is the easiest way to avoid confrontation.
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Originally posted by Lite Brite Lite Brite wrote:

No, but I do laugh while saying sh*t to my friends/sisters that a lot of people would find offensive if I said it to them, but not the way it seems in the OP
This.Smile

Some people you can be playful with and others not so much.
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Originally posted by Alias_Avi Alias_Avi wrote:

That is weird

I can't picture you doing that lol

Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

hmm when im mad i cant keep a straight face...it's weird. i smile and grin. so im yelling at you while grinning. it's disconcerting as fvck for the other person bc my face and voice are not matching up. weird.


idk if i do it a lot now but i distinctly remember doing it with my ex once. i was FURIOUS. and i was smiling like a jackass. LOL he was like 


im not good at staying mad anyway. i get a weird uncomfy feeling and i have to tell you why im mad. that's why i like having super blunt friends. we can say whatever sh*t we need to say and move on. im one of those "say it with your chests" "dont go to bed angry" people and my dh is the opposite bc he can stay mad forever. we've had to work on that
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Originally posted by Alias_Avi Alias_Avi wrote:

No cuz she's one of those people LOL

She can't handle confrontation (which is why she sugarcoats her opinion with laughter lol)

Originally posted by newdiva1 newdiva1 wrote:

yeah I know folks like this.  alot of them simply don't want confrontation.  It gets on your nerves but have u cussed her out when she says what she says and laughs it off?

All the more reason to put her in her place IMO. Don't have her thinking it's alright for her to do that ish.
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I live with her tho so it ain't that easy

I will, however, check her on her gossiping habits tho
Can't stand that

Originally posted by newdiva1 newdiva1 wrote:

welp there u go.  we all know if someone tells us about ourselves and they don't laugh...we will most likely get mad and cuss and possibly slap up.  don't matter if they are right.  to laugh it off is the easiest way to avoid confrontation.
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