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Originally posted by femmefatale85 femmefatale85 wrote:

i ruminate a lot and i probably shouldn't dwell on circumstances from years ago, but i can be very hard on myself

 
I stopped doing this in my mid 20s, thank God.  It has been very liberating for me.  Its good to challenge yourself in terms of things you have control over, but not about things that have happened in the past.
 
I know its a clich√©, but everything you've done wrong has made you who you are. 


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Originally posted by uppitynegroid uppitynegroid wrote:

Originally posted by slykitten slykitten wrote:

Two-star thread?  For real?? SMH
 
I really think there is a troll on here that goes around giving everyone 1-star.  I 5-starred you though. 
 
I never thought of it my relationship with myself this way before.  I think I'm a much better friend to my actual friends than myself.  I need to work on that. 

I realized this about myself one day and decided that it needed to change.  It is a freeing experience.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote CherryBlossom Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 04 2013 at 5:04am
not as much as I should be tbh..sometimes I feel like I'm a friend to everybody else but myself *sigh*

I'm really self-critical and have the tendency to beat myself up about things, I'm getting over it though--mistakes are a part of life, I need to accept that and just be kinder to myself sometimes.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote _ConcreteRose_ Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 04 2013 at 11:32am
This is a good topic. I was just thinking about it coming out of class and having a semi awkward encounter with this guy I'm crushing on. I'd say I'm friends with myself sometimes. Its a lot better than it used to be. Bit I still could stand to cut down on the negative self talk. I'm going to work on that.
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I am. It took a really bad life experience for me to realize that all I got is me. People who I would do anything for have mistreated me so I had to learn the hard way to never mistreat or devalue myself. If I'm out here downing and disrespecting myself then why would anyone else treat me better?
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90% of the time me and she are BFF's.
if i resumed my workout plan and was more consistent then that would triple. 
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Bumping this post because I suspect more people are liking themselves because of the warmer weather.  Spring and summer tend to make for happier people.  I've love to hear from the people who said they weren't their own friend to see if this has changed.
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 i love my f*ckin self and my thoughts.  a lot!!!!!!!!!!!!  me and she are the best of buddies...
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i love me. 
i make myself laugh.  


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Yep i love me at one point i didn't but that was only making me miserable i just started to think better about myself and believe that i was worth the love.
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