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nvm. misread the ?.

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one piece of advice i always give my niece, her friends and the youngins i work with when i'm volunteering is that, the more we judge others, the more we judge ourselves. this is FACT!


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I must admitt, it's a no.
I'd think she was trying to kill me. She over feeds me to the point of over stuffed sleep, feeds me junk then forces me to do what I hate; workout for hours and then she does it all over again.

I like your question because it makes you look into yourself and for me, This is so sad but it has caused me to think about taking better care of me.
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Originally posted by noneyons noneyons wrote:

one piece of advice i always give my niece, her friends and the youngins i work with when i'm volunteering is that, the more we judge others, the more we judge ourselves. this is FACT!



Exactly!  It's similar to something that I read that goes like this, " What Sally says about Kathy, says more about Sally than it says about Kathy."  Like if you are saying something bad about someone, what does that say about you?
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Originally posted by Katrenia Katrenia wrote:

I must admitt, it's a no.
I'd think she was trying to kill me. She over feeds me to the point of over stuffed sleep, feeds me junk then forces me to do what I hate; workout for hours and then she does it all over again.

I like your question because it makes you look into yourself and for me, This is so sad but it has caused me to think about taking better care of me.
5Stars!!!

Glad the question turned out to be a positive thing for you :)
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I'm my best friend. I strongly believe that I have to love myself FIRST and I do. I enjoy my life and myself.
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Originally posted by HeyBeautiful18 HeyBeautiful18 wrote:

How can you be a better friend to yourself?

allow others to be great, to be weird, goofy, make mistakes, trip and fall over their shoelaces etc. and by default you're giving yourself space to accept your own greatness and/or dorkiness. LOL its a strange ricochet thing. but trust me, it works. 

p.s this is not to say you lie down and become a doormat. judge people by their actions and not by your perception of them. judgment is a built in safety net. its necessary but highly overused.  


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no, not at all. i'm a real bitch to myself.

i'm extremely critical of myself, and very self conscious of everything i do. i'm very full of fear and anxiety. it's hard for me to make and maintain connections and i find myself purposely pushing ppl away by cancelling plans.

i need to change how i talk to myself, and about myself to others.

i like that post.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote slykitten Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 03 2013 at 5:12am
Originally posted by Ladybird0724 Ladybird0724 wrote:

no, not at all. i'm a real bitch to myself.

i'm extremely critical of myself, and very self conscious of everything i do. i'm very full of fear and anxiety. it's hard for me to make and maintain connections and i find myself purposely pushing ppl away by cancelling plans.

i need to change how i talk to myself, and about myself to others.

i like that post.

Glad you liked!
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