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More safe sex practices is a start.
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In a lot of states abortions are on the rise after years of decline.

So yeah we still in the abortion business.

It's tough to find solid stats especially since California does not compile with the CDC in regards to admitting abortion statistics .
(Grain of salt) Blacks are 4.8 times as likely than White women and 2.7 times as likely than Hispanic women to have an abortion.
You can dissect the numbers bc abortion stats are just weird but. I don't think the black community is scared of abortion.
It's certainly being done

AGI does a lot of the abortion stats but they aren't really neutral.
They are connected with Planned Parenthood

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The kids are so beautiful, just like their two loving parents behind them.


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That's really sweet. I feel they are genuine and those kids are so beautiful
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We need to start policing ourselves and holding ourselves to much higher standards of accountability.

And no I'm not on some eugenics only the talented-tenth should have babies ish...more of a black people should not have babies until they are truly stable. And the only way to become stable is to put off having babies until certain milestones are met (ie you can read, write, and count; you can take care of yourself without anyone else's help; you're not in jail, on probation, or headed there, etc.).


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Adopting a child isn't a walk in the park either. It is a long process that can take over a year to complete which is why some people go overseas. Do yall remember Ms Jackie from Married to Medicine? She is a breast cancer survivor and the chemotherapy she underwent made her infertile. So when she tried to adopt a child with her husband, they denied her because she had breast cancer in the past. So I wonder what other terms they have for people trying to adopt. And I really don't understand the pricing system. Confused

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WOW it cost a bunch of loot to adopt. hell why not just use a surrogate for the same price.
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I'd rather see these beautiful innocent children being adopred by a White family WHERE THEY ARE LOVED and maybe lose a bit iof theIR Black culture ... than to see them in the foster care where they are just warehoused and abused and mostly passed from family to family so by the time  they hit 18 and are on their own .. they are a mess. So they end up in prison etc.
 
Black people are only 12.6% of the population but over one half of the children up for adoption are Black. The others are other races, sick, mentally ill, physically handicapped are they are too old for anyone to adopt.
 
But to get a healthy White baby ... takes years and years of waiting. And some States don't even allow White people to adopt Black kids .. so those kids are BOUND to grow up no decent start in life.
 
That's WHY surrogancy became popular to begin with .. well, this and other reasons. But mainly people can't get what they want from the pool of children available for adoption.
 
I think if you want to be a mother ... it does not matter what the skin color is. Geesh .. bring em home with you. Better than 'the system'. :(
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now watch some folks will respond to you either in a negative or positve way and you won'[t be heard from again... this always happens with you in these "color " threads...

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Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Really really real like what?
What should we be doing?
 
Like NOT getting knocked up to begin with! DUH!
 
That's how these poor children end up in The System.
 
Some girls does not have the sense (bad parenting) to NOT have sex at all untl they are mature enough to stay on the pill, the IUD, etc pr even take the Morning After pill. So they get knocked up and after a time for whatever reason that child get's put into Foster care or the adoption system.
 
Yes adoption costs a fortune. So people who adopt really want kids for the right reasons. I am not talking about ceibs .. I mean regular people.
 
Now the Foster care system is where they pay to take kids and THOSE KIDS are often very abused!
 
So yes, it's lies with the Black community to teach their kids some responsibilty about sex. Either don't have it period until you are much older, or stay on birth control or have an abortion.
 
But quit bringing children into the world when you don't have a way to provide for them so they end up in The System .. when goodness knows what becomes of them.
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