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Originally posted by creole booty creole booty wrote:

It's an even that anyone can go to? That's not that bad. I wouldn't admit I did that until I knew they really REALLY liked me though.

Some things r only ok when u like the person. When u don't like them, everything they do annoys u or is negative.


Yeah anyone can go. It's a homecoming parade and usually the entire city is there
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what type of event ?
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Originally posted by thewonderfulwa thewonderfulwa wrote:

So she wouldnt be going to the event if the guy wouldnt be there sounds stalkerish to me.
I hope she doesnt see anything to break her po lil' heart.


She wasn't even planning on gong! She just put two and two together and was like..."I know all his frat brothers will be there so he has to be."
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thats how a lot of dudes "bump" into girls they feeling


while yall twindling yall thumbs not being observant of your surroundings, dudes be planning how they gonna bump into u during lunch or magically park right next to u and  strike up a conversation with u in the parking lot
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Everybody so afraid of actually appearing to be interested in someone. I really wish we could learn to get over ourselves a bit more, the world would be a better place.

Life is so damn short.
(1) If you like someone, tell them
(2) If you want to do something, do it
(3) If you want to go somewhere, go

These rules have helped me enjoy life just a tad bit more in my "old age."
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Originally posted by Miss B Miss B wrote:

<span style="font-size: 12.222222328186035px; line-height: 18.66666603088379px;">Depends.....</span><div style="font-size: 12.222222328186035px; line-height: 18.66666603088379px;">
<div style="font-size: 12.222222328186035px; line-height: 18.66666603088379px;">How did she find out he was going? Did he tell her he was going and mentioned details (1 pt), just so happen to see a flyer on her newsfeed with him commenting that he's going (2 pts), did he vaguely mention it and she googled to fill in the details (3 pts) specifically go to his confirmed FB events (4 pts), or take a peep at his phone/email calendar (7 pts), have someone to hack into his accounts (50 pts)?

Was she also invited to the event? If she wasn't invited at all and only heard about it when she discovered he was going....10 pts. If she passively heard it (FB, instagram, flyer on car, lol) at least one other place before she found out he was going and decided to to, 5 pts. If she was personally invited by someone attending, 1 pt)

Did they already meet in person? (1 pt) or have they only communicated on-line up to this point? (5pts)

I think anything over 8 is somewhat stalkerish. Anything over 16 means you might need to keep a special eye on her.
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<div style="font-size: 12.222222328186035px; line-height: 18.66666603088379px;">With that said, I'm all for research. But I'd need more details to formulate a less stalkery yet still effective approach.


No they've never met in person. She joined this forum online to meet people in her area and then found out they were both Greek.

But based on your grading scale she's not too crazy
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Look at it this way, People go to events all the time hoping to meet someone. She just happens to know who that person is. I see nothing wrong here. She has a little crush most likely.

Edited by Princess_S - Sep 04 2014 at 2:45pm
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Originally posted by trudawg trudawg wrote:

Everybody so afraid of actually appearing to be interested in someone. I really wish we could learn to get over ourselves a bit more, the world would be a better place.

Life is so damn short.
(1) If you like someone, tell them
(2) If you want to do something, do it
(3) If you want to go somewhere, go

These rules have helped me enjoy life just a tad bit more in my "old age."

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Originally posted by callmeDEva callmeDEva wrote:

Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Why not just ask him to go with her. Seems like shes trying not appear "thirsty" by acting undeniably in need of hydration.


Yeah she's thirsty

They met via mutual interest and that's all they've talked about. They know one or two personal things about each other but that's it. I'm guessing it would be odd for her to ask


More reason to ask and stop with the Nancy Drew tactics. Its early either he gonna say yes or no. Thats better than trying to inject herself in a fake by chance situation.
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Nothong wrong with it....if they connect fine if not oh well.
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