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    Posted: Sep 04 2014 at 1:01pm
Say you met someone. In real life or online (after verifying they're not a catfish) you've only chatted a few times but it's pretty platonic at the moment.

They're from your area and there's an event going on where you know they'll be at. You make plans to go with the sole intention of "accidentally" running into them.



I'm trying to tell my friend she's being a little weird. My other friend thinks there's nothing wrong with it.
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Why not just ask him to go with her. Seems like shes trying not appear "thirsty" by acting undeniably in need of hydration.
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It's an even that anyone can go to? That's not that bad. I wouldn't admit I did that until I knew they really REALLY liked me though.

Some things r only ok when u like the person. When u don't like them, everything they do annoys u or is negative.
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So she wouldnt be going to the event if the guy wouldnt be there sounds stalkerish to me.
I hope she doesnt see anything to break her po lil' heart.
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easy way for her to get ghost if he isn't what she expected
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I don't think there's anything wrong with it really. You could go with her!
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[QUOTE=Gkisses]Why not just ask him to go with her. Seems like shes trying not appear "thirsty" by acting undeniably in need of hydration.[/QUOTE]

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Depends.....

How did she find out he was going? Did he tell her he was going and mentioned details (1 pt), just so happen to see a flyer on her newsfeed with him commenting that he's going (2 pts), did he vaguely mention it and she googled to fill in the details (3 pts) specifically go to his confirmed FB events (4 pts), or take a peep at his phone/email calendar (7 pts), have someone to hack into his accounts (50 pts)?

Was she also invited to the event? If she wasn't invited at all and only heard about it when she discovered he was going....10 pts. If she passively heard it (FB, instagram, flyer on car, lol) at least one other place before she found out he was going and decided to to, 5 pts. If she was personally invited by someone attending, 1 pt)

Did they already meet in person? (1 pt) or have they only communicated on-line up to this point? (5pts)

I think anything over 8 is somewhat stalkerish. Anything over 16 means you might need to keep a special eye on her.

With that said, I'm all for research. But I'd need more details to formulate a less stalkery yet still effective approach.
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these responses are funny
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Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Why not just ask him to go with her. Seems like shes trying not appear "thirsty" by acting undeniably in need of hydration.


Yeah she's thirsty

They met via mutual interest and that's all they've talked about. They know one or two personal things about each other but that's it. I'm guessing it would be odd for her to ask
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