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I think being attracted to others is human nature.
I think being unable to resist temptation is a character flaw.

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Originally posted by smaison smaison wrote:

People are meant to be in whatever type of relationship they want to be in. My only issue with monogamy is it being shoved down people's throat.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote ThoughtCouture Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 01 2013 at 6:34am
Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:

Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:

monogamy does come naturally for some people

and even for the promiscuous, many expect monogamy from their partners ... 

so I never understood the premise that monogamy is "unnatural" or "contrary to human nature"
Guuurl!LOL

The blatant hypocrisy always tickles me about those situations. You can cheat but your partner can't? Say wut now?

LOL

i think as you age and your sex drive declines monogamy becomes much more realistic and seems less "burdensome" if that makes sense.
 
makes sense to me...lol
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Originally posted by smaison smaison wrote:

I prefer to be with someone that will give me a pass every now and then; might not use it, but at least it's there.
I was thinking about this. I was wondering people who are really honest with one another, would they tell their SO they wanted to cheat, and how the other person would respond. Like would they allow them since their being honest, like what would be the resolution sorry my question mark button isnt working idk y
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I think using that as an excuse is wack.

If you cant control yourself then thats cool but dont make excuses for it and just stay single or be honest. Dont date someone then cheat and use that line to get out of it


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Humans can be both and choose which choice they desire. Polygamy and polygyny  are only if one sex is much lower than the other so one is needed but if they are both much more even than monogamy is needed. One person at leasts has their own mate and it creates an easier way to see if one has a disease and nothing is really getting passed around.
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Originally posted by loveandpeace1984 loveandpeace1984 wrote:

Humans can be both and choose which choice they desire. Polygamy and polygyny  are only if one sex is much lower than the other so one is needed but if they are both much more even than monogamy is needed. One person at leasts has their own mate and it creates an easier way to see if one has a disease and nothing is really getting passed around.
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Originally posted by melikey melikey wrote:

I think being attracted to others is human nature.
I think being unable to resist temptation is a character flaw.


i think IA with this. you're taught at an early age you can't get everything you want [no you can't have the cookie before dinner]. so why is it the idea that you can't fvck everyone you want soooo....idk.  

anyway--monogamy ain't for everyone but it's for most so no i don't believe monogamy is unnatural. 
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Natural or unnatural idgaf

...all I know is I could only ever be happy in a totally monogamous relationship

I know people in polygamous relationship and it works for them, everyone is happy but really it's just not for me


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